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1 year later, nothing has changed. Trying to let go, i need help
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<blockquote data-quote="Hopingforthe best" data-source="post: 554918" data-attributes="member: 12294"><p>@ lisa and Re, thanks. I know what you mean and i recognize he is scared and sometimes thinking about how afraid he could be of losing his mom have resulted in me enabling him and making it harder for him learn. I feel a lot of guilt.</p><p></p><p>Dash, you have explained it well, and i have to keep on reminding myself that my difficult child will only learn from his own mistakes. For the longest time i thought if i kept on telling him to avoid my mistakes then that would scare him enough not to repeat them. I also thought i had moved beyond my past and was doing well emotionally and in life until my son started acting out, then i realized i have to work hard on myself too. I will look for another therapist and start working on issues too. Thanks for the support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopingforthe best, post: 554918, member: 12294"] @ lisa and Re, thanks. I know what you mean and i recognize he is scared and sometimes thinking about how afraid he could be of losing his mom have resulted in me enabling him and making it harder for him learn. I feel a lot of guilt. Dash, you have explained it well, and i have to keep on reminding myself that my difficult child will only learn from his own mistakes. For the longest time i thought if i kept on telling him to avoid my mistakes then that would scare him enough not to repeat them. I also thought i had moved beyond my past and was doing well emotionally and in life until my son started acting out, then i realized i have to work hard on myself too. I will look for another therapist and start working on issues too. Thanks for the support. [/QUOTE]
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