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10 Days Since I Kicked him out - so far so good.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 664409" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>SeaGenie, I think you are doing great.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing like having peace in our own home. I'm glad you are now experiencing that.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing wrong with you going through the things in the room that he occupied while he was there. *note, I did not say "His room" as it's not.</p><p>You can always box up his belongings and hold on to them for him.</p><p></p><p>As for contacting him, it's up to you. Here's my take on it; If you are strong enough to stand your ground and not allow him to come back to your home then go ahead and send a text, something simple, "just wanted you to know I love you"</p><p>If you are not strong enough to stand your ground and feel you might cave and let him back into your home then at this time I would not send a text.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This is where you have to dig deep down within yourself and draw on all the strength you have. He may very well reject you. Yes, it hurts but it's something you can get through. He may reject you now but it won't last forever. There will come a point when he needs something and you will be the one he calls.</p><p></p><p>You really are doing great. Continue to enjoy the peace in your home, you deserve it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 664409, member: 18516"] SeaGenie, I think you are doing great. There is nothing like having peace in our own home. I'm glad you are now experiencing that. There is nothing wrong with you going through the things in the room that he occupied while he was there. *note, I did not say "His room" as it's not. You can always box up his belongings and hold on to them for him. As for contacting him, it's up to you. Here's my take on it; If you are strong enough to stand your ground and not allow him to come back to your home then go ahead and send a text, something simple, "just wanted you to know I love you" If you are not strong enough to stand your ground and feel you might cave and let him back into your home then at this time I would not send a text. This is where you have to dig deep down within yourself and draw on all the strength you have. He may very well reject you. Yes, it hurts but it's something you can get through. He may reject you now but it won't last forever. There will come a point when he needs something and you will be the one he calls. You really are doing great. Continue to enjoy the peace in your home, you deserve it. [/QUOTE]
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