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10 y/o girl, ODD, Borderline (BPD), and/or something else???
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<blockquote data-quote="Caribbeangirl4ev" data-source="post: 599413" data-attributes="member: 15685"><p>Thank you. She doesn't have any medications now from when she had Kawasaki's. It was all treated when she was a baby and all that I know is that she isn't and hasn't been on any medication. She honestly does not see when she is wrong and is getting more daring about it and blatantly disrespectful. I just feel badly because my patience with my sister is pretty spent and I don't even like to be around her much anymore.... Some days it's ok, but others I just don't want to even be in the same room with her.... So I don't really help much anymore.... I try to and do sometimes, but not a lot... Like I handle it usually to a point, but sometimes I just don't even want to hear it.... I hope that that makes sense... Anyway I am trying now to plan out everything that can be done advance so that my mom truly hears me out... Sometimes she listens, but she normally just doesn't want to even hear it anymore... She's pretty spent herself.... So I am looking into the evaluation and into the books referenced before. I want to at least make things easier for my mom and try to get a better grasp of coping with it all myself, handling things better, and getting a better picture of where we are, you know? And any techniques to help handle the stress vs just freaking out and screaming or wanting to strangle her would be greatly appreciated.... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Like I have tried to go to my room or walk away before(when we have been alone, which my mom tries to assure me will not happen hardly ever again) and she has almost broken my door off of the hinges(it is all cracked along them to where you have to angle and push back to close or open and is eventually going to have to be replaced or it'll fall and kill one of our kitties or something-it's pretty damaged) from hitting or kicking it and tries to do something to upset me like yelling at or messing with(sometimes hitting or just petting) my dog, taking something of mine, hitting or kicking me, throwing things at me, and just being down right hurtful... Just because she can, doesn't get her way, isn't in a great mood to begin with, or something of the sort... I don't know if I should write or start up some sort of hobby that can be therapeutic.... Just need a stress reliever and possibly a technique to handle her when she bugs out.... And we have tried telling her to calm down and take a breath, that she's in control, but she just gets sarcastic and mean in return. How else could we show her that she is in control of herself with her actually hearing us?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Caribbeangirl4ev, post: 599413, member: 15685"] Thank you. She doesn't have any medications now from when she had Kawasaki's. It was all treated when she was a baby and all that I know is that she isn't and hasn't been on any medication. She honestly does not see when she is wrong and is getting more daring about it and blatantly disrespectful. I just feel badly because my patience with my sister is pretty spent and I don't even like to be around her much anymore.... Some days it's ok, but others I just don't want to even be in the same room with her.... So I don't really help much anymore.... I try to and do sometimes, but not a lot... Like I handle it usually to a point, but sometimes I just don't even want to hear it.... I hope that that makes sense... Anyway I am trying now to plan out everything that can be done advance so that my mom truly hears me out... Sometimes she listens, but she normally just doesn't want to even hear it anymore... She's pretty spent herself.... So I am looking into the evaluation and into the books referenced before. I want to at least make things easier for my mom and try to get a better grasp of coping with it all myself, handling things better, and getting a better picture of where we are, you know? And any techniques to help handle the stress vs just freaking out and screaming or wanting to strangle her would be greatly appreciated.... :( Like I have tried to go to my room or walk away before(when we have been alone, which my mom tries to assure me will not happen hardly ever again) and she has almost broken my door off of the hinges(it is all cracked along them to where you have to angle and push back to close or open and is eventually going to have to be replaced or it'll fall and kill one of our kitties or something-it's pretty damaged) from hitting or kicking it and tries to do something to upset me like yelling at or messing with(sometimes hitting or just petting) my dog, taking something of mine, hitting or kicking me, throwing things at me, and just being down right hurtful... Just because she can, doesn't get her way, isn't in a great mood to begin with, or something of the sort... I don't know if I should write or start up some sort of hobby that can be therapeutic.... Just need a stress reliever and possibly a technique to handle her when she bugs out.... And we have tried telling her to calm down and take a breath, that she's in control, but she just gets sarcastic and mean in return. How else could we show her that she is in control of herself with her actually hearing us? [/QUOTE]
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