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11 Months Clean, Using Marijuana Again and More, Just Stunned.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 661338" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Havehadenough, your son has made errors of judgment one after another. To have contact with a former resident when in a position of responsibility, was wrong. He knew it was wrong.</p><p></p><p>He has made some positive choices, which shows that he can if he wants to have good judgment, know right from wrong, etc. And it seems he has leadership qualities and good social skills. All of these are reasons to be encouraged. If he decides at some point to turn this around.</p><p></p><p>There is no role for you in this, ever again, as I see it. He has shown that he can do it his way. Let him.</p><p></p><p>Most of all he betrayed your help and your love. The issue of a check that appears forged in a business arrangement in which he involved you is a betrayal.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, I would distance myself from him now, so that your boundaries are clear and strong. He needs to know that you will not participate with him, at all, in this sloppy and undisciplined way he is living his life. He knows better. I feel sad for you that he has shown parts of himself that do not do justice to how he was raised. He has shown he can live his own life without your help. Let him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 661338, member: 18958"] Havehadenough, your son has made errors of judgment one after another. To have contact with a former resident when in a position of responsibility, was wrong. He knew it was wrong. He has made some positive choices, which shows that he can if he wants to have good judgment, know right from wrong, etc. And it seems he has leadership qualities and good social skills. All of these are reasons to be encouraged. If he decides at some point to turn this around. There is no role for you in this, ever again, as I see it. He has shown that he can do it his way. Let him. Most of all he betrayed your help and your love. The issue of a check that appears forged in a business arrangement in which he involved you is a betrayal. If it were me, I would distance myself from him now, so that your boundaries are clear and strong. He needs to know that you will not participate with him, at all, in this sloppy and undisciplined way he is living his life. He knows better. I feel sad for you that he has shown parts of himself that do not do justice to how he was raised. He has shown he can live his own life without your help. Let him. [/QUOTE]
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