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11 yr old girl and her curiousity
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<blockquote data-quote="trying_to_understand" data-source="post: 452654" data-attributes="member: 12589"><p>So what is a good way to find out if she has been sexually abused? I mean, if she doesn't want to talk or has been threatened, how will I get it out of her? No, I'm not sure bio-Dad is safe. She is not ever left alone with my current husband so that's not an option. But people come in and out of bio-Dad's house like crazy. Would she act afraid of the person? Or cling to them? What are some signs to look for? I'm sorry, I'm new at this and now I'm paranoid. Could the step-mother be the one doing it? </p><p></p><p>I know I did sort of the same thing when I was her age. And, I wasn't ever informed either. My mom didn't talk to me about <em>anything</em>. So I was just left to "discover" things on my own. However, the cousin that she did this with doesn't have a good home life either. I haven't gotten to actually talk to my daughter. face to face because she is with her dad. But something tells me no one has stopped to listen to her side of the story. I think (and hope) there is more to it than what the cousin told her mom and mom told my ex and ex told me. The grapevine is a dangerous place to be, especially when something like this is involved.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trying_to_understand, post: 452654, member: 12589"] So what is a good way to find out if she has been sexually abused? I mean, if she doesn't want to talk or has been threatened, how will I get it out of her? No, I'm not sure bio-Dad is safe. She is not ever left alone with my current husband so that's not an option. But people come in and out of bio-Dad's house like crazy. Would she act afraid of the person? Or cling to them? What are some signs to look for? I'm sorry, I'm new at this and now I'm paranoid. Could the step-mother be the one doing it? I know I did sort of the same thing when I was her age. And, I wasn't ever informed either. My mom didn't talk to me about [I]anything[/I]. So I was just left to "discover" things on my own. However, the cousin that she did this with doesn't have a good home life either. I haven't gotten to actually talk to my daughter. face to face because she is with her dad. But something tells me no one has stopped to listen to her side of the story. I think (and hope) there is more to it than what the cousin told her mom and mom told my ex and ex told me. The grapevine is a dangerous place to be, especially when something like this is involved. [/QUOTE]
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