Sorry this is long . . . So I know this will all sound crazy, but bear with me. difficult child is being homeschooled and has NO friends. I allow her to go onto a site online called Stickam where she uses a "camera" to see people she is talking to. She is gay and goes ino the lesbian chat rooms. I wake her at 11am and she has a bedtime of 1am. Reason being - these "friends" are her only means of communication with the outside universe. I also work from home from 6am-2:30pm - so I cannot start "school" until the afternoon so I don't mind her sleep schedule. It has all actually been ok until now. She met a 19 yr old online (difficult child is just turning 15) and before I knew it she tells me the 19 yr old (ADULT!) is moving here from New Mexico (we're in NY) and can she stay with us?! No job, no place to live, Uh - NOT!) So somehow she arranges for the 19 yr old to stay with someone she knows and will be supposedly moving here in June!! Today's issue - I was woken up at 5am (I don't get up until 5:45am and was VERY upset to say he least) from her talking to the 19 yr old! I don't want to take her phone away altogether because between that and the internet it is all she has and would throw a fit the size of Texas if I did which I am trying to avoid. Our computer automatically shuts off at night - so that is safe, but just got off with the phone company and there is no way to do that with the phone. I go to bed before she does so I don't take the phone from her when I go to bed. So question/dilemma is this - We are VERY close - I do not want to push her away from me. I have told her she is NOT allowed to "date" anyone more than 2 years older than her - this has been house rule forever. I am very worried that if 19 yr old moves here difficult child will try to sneak out to see her (yes, I am going to enable the GPS on her phone so I can track her). She does not know I can view her call log online. How do I get her to leave the 19 yr old alone? I could block her number on difficult child's phone but I'm sure 19 yr old would just call from another phone. I am VERY concerned and I guess am trying to figure out the least painful way to stop this insanity. I am with difficult child 24 hrs a day and I must say I am not emotionally able to deal with a huge blow out - it would be horrible for days and would push her even further towards this 19 yr old creep. Thoughts? Suggestions?