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<blockquote data-quote="nomad78" data-source="post: 283397" data-attributes="member: 7620"><p>Talked to a psychologist today about my nightmares and inability to sleep.</p><p></p><p>She insisted that he not be allowed around any children unsupervised. </p><p></p><p>That his mother and I need to address and punish every bad behavior without fail. That anything we let slide just reinforces his bad behavior.</p><p></p><p>She wants the house locked down tighter than it already is.</p><p></p><p>She said that we are obligated to report the molestation to the police, even if charges are not pressed. The forensic psychologist he has seen told us not to report it, as it would only make him resent us. I have wanted to report him all along, and press charges. There is nothing OK with what he has done and I do believe he will do it again, if he has not already.</p><p></p><p>For my life, I do not know why his mom thinks its OK for him to play with the young kids, or why she stopped me from going to talk to their parents. I think the forensic psychologist who told her he was not a risk just comforted her fears and is totally full of BS. I know that it is incredibly hard for a mother to think her son might be a predator; however, mock raping a cat, molesting his mom, and stalking a porn woman over the internet has me pretty convinced that he has no limitations.</p><p></p><p>I think he, his mom, myself, his bio father, the police, and his psychologists need to sit down and have a long talk. I plan on fighting that point tonight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nomad78, post: 283397, member: 7620"] Talked to a psychologist today about my nightmares and inability to sleep. She insisted that he not be allowed around any children unsupervised. That his mother and I need to address and punish every bad behavior without fail. That anything we let slide just reinforces his bad behavior. She wants the house locked down tighter than it already is. She said that we are obligated to report the molestation to the police, even if charges are not pressed. The forensic psychologist he has seen told us not to report it, as it would only make him resent us. I have wanted to report him all along, and press charges. There is nothing OK with what he has done and I do believe he will do it again, if he has not already. For my life, I do not know why his mom thinks its OK for him to play with the young kids, or why she stopped me from going to talk to their parents. I think the forensic psychologist who told her he was not a risk just comforted her fears and is totally full of BS. I know that it is incredibly hard for a mother to think her son might be a predator; however, mock raping a cat, molesting his mom, and stalking a porn woman over the internet has me pretty convinced that he has no limitations. I think he, his mom, myself, his bio father, the police, and his psychologists need to sit down and have a long talk. I plan on fighting that point tonight. [/QUOTE]
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