Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
14 year old step-son is scaring me
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 283588" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>This is frightening to me because it happened to me. The difficult children' biomother rewarded difficult child 1 for doing things like destroying property, getting violent with us, stealing, etc. etc. etc. We knew it but could never prove it. We still cannot even though difficult child 1 herself has told us about this (she finally saw what her mother was doing to her and her brother). Our house was in a constant state of fear and lockdown. I finally had to find a counselor of my own. I just couldn't take it anymore.</p><p> </p><p>I'm going to say the same as everyone else. GET OUT. If the child's mother won't... You can only help yourself... And he is going to end up getting you arrested, likely for something you have not done. Report all of the incidents. Documentation is key. Tell the police that the mother will likely deny. Tell them everything. because - let me tell you - once a man is accused (women too, but men mostly, it's not fair but that's how it is) - it <strong>never goes away</strong>. Not ever.</p><p> </p><p>Let me mention something else that could be used against you. Statistically speaking, the <em>most likely person to abuse a child is the biological mother's partner - and the least likely is the child's biological father</em>. It is fairly obvious to me that this is patently untrue in your case, but it <strong>can</strong> and <strong>will</strong> be used.</p><p> </p><p>Call the police and get yourself a safe place to go. NOW.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 283588, member: 6705"] This is frightening to me because it happened to me. The difficult children' biomother rewarded difficult child 1 for doing things like destroying property, getting violent with us, stealing, etc. etc. etc. We knew it but could never prove it. We still cannot even though difficult child 1 herself has told us about this (she finally saw what her mother was doing to her and her brother). Our house was in a constant state of fear and lockdown. I finally had to find a counselor of my own. I just couldn't take it anymore. I'm going to say the same as everyone else. GET OUT. If the child's mother won't... You can only help yourself... And he is going to end up getting you arrested, likely for something you have not done. Report all of the incidents. Documentation is key. Tell the police that the mother will likely deny. Tell them everything. because - let me tell you - once a man is accused (women too, but men mostly, it's not fair but that's how it is) - it [B]never goes away[/B]. Not ever. Let me mention something else that could be used against you. Statistically speaking, the [I]most likely person to abuse a child is the biological mother's partner - and the least likely is the child's biological father[/I]. It is fairly obvious to me that this is patently untrue in your case, but it [B]can[/B] and [B]will[/B] be used. Call the police and get yourself a safe place to go. NOW. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
14 year old step-son is scaring me
Top