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14 yr old took adhd pills to school
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 273542" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>I think this depends on how much you can expect from her and what her "currency" is. What is it about her behaviour that gets up your nose the most?</p><p></p><p>An example from Andy, one of our other posters. She told her daughter not to expect anything from Andy until daughter could be civil to her for a month. For each breach of civility, the calendar got restarted.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if something that extreme will work for your daughter, but perhaps a shorter timeframe such as a week or a couple of days. It really depends on how much she can handle.</p><p></p><p>For example, with my difficult child, we do stuff like this in increments of a 1/2 hour, or even 15 min. He just can't keep it together longer than that. If he builds up a 1/2 hour of the expected behaviour, then he earns a privilege.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if I'm helping at all, but so much of this is subjective and depends on what you want your difficult child to change.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 273542, member: 3907"] I think this depends on how much you can expect from her and what her "currency" is. What is it about her behaviour that gets up your nose the most? An example from Andy, one of our other posters. She told her daughter not to expect anything from Andy until daughter could be civil to her for a month. For each breach of civility, the calendar got restarted. I don't know if something that extreme will work for your daughter, but perhaps a shorter timeframe such as a week or a couple of days. It really depends on how much she can handle. For example, with my difficult child, we do stuff like this in increments of a 1/2 hour, or even 15 min. He just can't keep it together longer than that. If he builds up a 1/2 hour of the expected behaviour, then he earns a privilege. I don't know if I'm helping at all, but so much of this is subjective and depends on what you want your difficult child to change. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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