I got to start by saying that after reading some of the posts i already feel that i am not alone.i have three kids my first is my nightmare, at his age he is doing pot and now during summer getting drunk at least three nights per week, i got him a job working with his step dad cleaning cars he does not want to go. In two weeks he only went two times, he was arrested for pom about a month ago, i told him i dont have money for a lawyer he was gonna have to work to pay for it, he didn't, last night he came home abouth five thirty in the morning ringing the bell like crazy woke up my disable child who is four yers old and very tuff to put to sleep, he was having a fight with his girl friend and was drunk causing her out and been very loud outside my house. At that time i sent him to bed, and today around ten had a serious talk with him about kicking him out of the house if i see him drunk one more time, i dont know if i did right he is not eighteen yet, but i am tire of his behaviour he is been going to court, but does not want to change, he said he already stopped smoking pot but i doubt it, he lies a lot, does not want to do anything around the house all he does is sleep during the day and at night he leaves the house and comes in the morning, i dont know what to do help!!!!!