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20yo difficult child determined to get married - soon
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 498475" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Hi there. </p><p></p><p>I really feel for you. I have your situation but it isnt my aspie son that does this, its my ADHD son that does it. My ADHD son from the time he left home simply couldnt be alone....he had to have companionship which meant a girl and because he was military that meant he had to marry one to have her live with him. Sigh. He is on version 2.0 right now. That is after the first fiance was kicked to the curb on their wedding day too so he could have been on version 3.0! </p><p></p><p>He is only 27. He is really pretty miserable with his choices. The first one cheated on him and he sent her packing immediately. Within six months he was living with his next wife and they were pregnant with their first child by the time they had been together a year. They got married right after the baby was born. They have another child now but they really arent happy. </p><p></p><p>Not that my youngest son has done all that well either. Baby mama drama and all that. Second girlfriend and new baby. New girlfriend and first baby mama dont get along...its a real drama. My life is interesting to say the least. I have 4 grandchildren that are mixed up in all this. </p><p></p><p>I do my best to be good to the grands...vent on this board...and be a smiling bobble-headed fool when the boys are asking me advice. I learned the hard way that if I give any advice it will be used against me at some later time. Now I do tell them to NOT tell me of their problems if they dont want me involved in their lives. I dont want to hear it. My daughter in law likes to call me and complain about my son and what he does or doesnt do. Like I can help her if he doesnt change diapers...lol. What am I gonna do? Run to VA and make him do it? LOL. Dont think so. I tell her to talk to him not me because it doesnt make me mad at him, it irritates me at her. </p><p></p><p>I dont know if I am helping or not but this is my experience with being the mother of 2 difficult child boys who are involved with 2 difficult child girls.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 498475, member: 1514"] Hi there. I really feel for you. I have your situation but it isnt my aspie son that does this, its my ADHD son that does it. My ADHD son from the time he left home simply couldnt be alone....he had to have companionship which meant a girl and because he was military that meant he had to marry one to have her live with him. Sigh. He is on version 2.0 right now. That is after the first fiance was kicked to the curb on their wedding day too so he could have been on version 3.0! He is only 27. He is really pretty miserable with his choices. The first one cheated on him and he sent her packing immediately. Within six months he was living with his next wife and they were pregnant with their first child by the time they had been together a year. They got married right after the baby was born. They have another child now but they really arent happy. Not that my youngest son has done all that well either. Baby mama drama and all that. Second girlfriend and new baby. New girlfriend and first baby mama dont get along...its a real drama. My life is interesting to say the least. I have 4 grandchildren that are mixed up in all this. I do my best to be good to the grands...vent on this board...and be a smiling bobble-headed fool when the boys are asking me advice. I learned the hard way that if I give any advice it will be used against me at some later time. Now I do tell them to NOT tell me of their problems if they dont want me involved in their lives. I dont want to hear it. My daughter in law likes to call me and complain about my son and what he does or doesnt do. Like I can help her if he doesnt change diapers...lol. What am I gonna do? Run to VA and make him do it? LOL. Dont think so. I tell her to talk to him not me because it doesnt make me mad at him, it irritates me at her. I dont know if I am helping or not but this is my experience with being the mother of 2 difficult child boys who are involved with 2 difficult child girls. [/QUOTE]
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