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22 year old son brings home new girlfriend of 3 weeks and she is sleeping in his bed
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 392625" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>It's weird, because I'm dealing with something similar with my difficult child. She isn't sleeping here with her boyfriend ... she lives with her dad and I've made my boundaries very clear. My problem (currently) has to do with the fact that DEX is going out of town next week and doesn't want her staying at his place. At first, he said it was because he didn't want her playing house with her boyfriend (which I thought was odd because he allows her to be home alone with boyfriend all the time AND also allows them to be in her bedroom even if he is home), but the real truth came out in a phone conversation today: he doesn't want her there because she's a slob and his CLEANING LADY (yes, I had to be replaced with TWO people) is coming Friday and he wants to return to a clean house.</p><p> </p><p>Excuse me? You're worried about coming home to a messy house and not at all worried about the road your daughter's going down lately?</p><p> </p><p>So his brilliant idea was to have her come and stay with me for the week - something I was ok with until I realized that she's going to make my life a living hell if we force her to do that. </p><p></p><p>I told him this morning that he can tell her that she can't stay there, but he CAN'T tell her she has to stay here. I'm going to let them figure it out.</p><p> </p><p>I think you should seriously consider sending your son to spend some quality time with daddy. Believe me, I know how hard it is to go through a divorce. I also know that it can be exceedinglly painful to have your child - no matter how old they are - choose the other parent. My difficult child has done the ping-pong thing between houses for two years and every single time she flounces out of her to move in with her buddy daddy, it breaks my heart all over again. But I know now that I just have to let it play out. </p><p> </p><p>Many hugs to you,</p><p>Dash</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 392625, member: 9175"] It's weird, because I'm dealing with something similar with my difficult child. She isn't sleeping here with her boyfriend ... she lives with her dad and I've made my boundaries very clear. My problem (currently) has to do with the fact that DEX is going out of town next week and doesn't want her staying at his place. At first, he said it was because he didn't want her playing house with her boyfriend (which I thought was odd because he allows her to be home alone with boyfriend all the time AND also allows them to be in her bedroom even if he is home), but the real truth came out in a phone conversation today: he doesn't want her there because she's a slob and his CLEANING LADY (yes, I had to be replaced with TWO people) is coming Friday and he wants to return to a clean house. Excuse me? You're worried about coming home to a messy house and not at all worried about the road your daughter's going down lately? So his brilliant idea was to have her come and stay with me for the week - something I was ok with until I realized that she's going to make my life a living hell if we force her to do that. I told him this morning that he can tell her that she can't stay there, but he CAN'T tell her she has to stay here. I'm going to let them figure it out. I think you should seriously consider sending your son to spend some quality time with daddy. Believe me, I know how hard it is to go through a divorce. I also know that it can be exceedinglly painful to have your child - no matter how old they are - choose the other parent. My difficult child has done the ping-pong thing between houses for two years and every single time she flounces out of her to move in with her buddy daddy, it breaks my heart all over again. But I know now that I just have to let it play out. Many hugs to you, Dash [/QUOTE]
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