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3 1/2 year old (almost 4) starting to say violent phrases, angry phrases, also ticks
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 429639" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong><span style="color: red">RED</span> FLAG <span style="color: red">RED</span> FLAG <span style="color: red">RED</span> FLAG.</strong></span></p><p></p><p>Sorry, I don't meant scare you but your post sent chills up my spine. </p><p></p><p>Firstly, If your son is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), then more than likely, he heard those violent phrases from somewhere - TV, school, friend's? While certainly possible for Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids, to come up with their repetitive phrases on their own, it's usually a phrase they hear often, and like it for whatever reason, and then repeat it. When I think of my own son, who is now 15, and who still picks a "phrase of the week" so to speak, he's never created one. Odd sounds, sure, but actual language phrases come from somewhere. The closest I came to thinking he came up with one of his own was when he was 5. We were driving down the road and he started saying, "Here we are, lost in Downtown Charleston" He repeated it every time we got in the car. I thought it was cute. What I had forgotten was that he was watching home videos and that's exactly what I said on the video as I was filming us driving along.. by the way at the time I didn't not know that he had Asperger's, but I was aware of his mimicking and repetitive behavior.</p><p></p><p><strong>I'm not done yet, please keep reading</strong></p><p>When my son started pre-K, he was fully potty trained. Day time, night time, pee and poo. I had no clue that he was on AS yet. The public school told me that he had some language delays and he was getting placed in the special class. I was shocked annoyed and aggravated, but said OK. Shortly after school started they called me in to discuss his masturbation issues. ????? He doesn't do that at home. Eventually I did notice it at home. OK, so the kid's giving himself a treat, steer him to the bedroom - this is stuff you do privately, son. Then one day he was in my room watching TV and he started calling me. When I got in there, his pants were off and there was a brown ball on the floor ????? Long story short, he was retaining his bowels until they exploded out of him. Turns out he was masturbating because he was getting erections because the impacted BM was pressing on his prostate. (pediatrician confirmed this all) I felt horrible that I hadn't noticed him retaining, but like any first time mom, you learn from your mistakes and move on. So I made sure he tried to have a BM every day. Oh he was so resistant. He REFUSED! I went over his diet with his Dr and was told that it was OK and shouldn't be causing this. Did get tips to make the diet looser. Finally I started asking him WHY he didn't want to poo. "Poopies are UGLY!" So he's turning 5 in a month, I have a baby on the way, and I have to do potty training again? UHG Nothing I said or did would convince him that it was a GOOD thing to put the poopies in the potty. One day I finally asked him WHY he thought popies were ugly. "Ms L says poopies are ugly" I just about blew my top! Ms L was the class aide. Apparently it was her job to help the special kids with the potty - some of whom weren't potty trained at all. Now my son did not need assistance in that capacity before he entered the classroom, Ms L NEVER assisted him personally, but just what he heard and observed created this new issue. It took <strong><span style="font-size: 18px">3</span> </strong>years to get him to stop retaining his bowels.</p><p></p><p>If both of these behaviors started at the same time, I'm willing to bet that there is a pretty serious problem in one of his environments. Totally possible that nothing REALLY bad is going on, but, like in my case, the caregiver is just and *****' idiot and being inappropriate, but you should investigate this further. </p><p></p><p>by the way when he says these violent things, does he look or sound aggressive? Or does it look like your sweet innocent kid trying to play a role he's not cut out for?</p><p></p><p>I'm concerned for your son, please keep me updated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 429639, member: 11965"] [SIZE=4][B][COLOR=red]RED[/COLOR] FLAG [COLOR=red]RED[/COLOR] FLAG [COLOR=red]RED[/COLOR] FLAG.[/B][/SIZE] Sorry, I don't meant scare you but your post sent chills up my spine. Firstly, If your son is Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), then more than likely, he heard those violent phrases from somewhere - TV, school, friend's? While certainly possible for Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids, to come up with their repetitive phrases on their own, it's usually a phrase they hear often, and like it for whatever reason, and then repeat it. When I think of my own son, who is now 15, and who still picks a "phrase of the week" so to speak, he's never created one. Odd sounds, sure, but actual language phrases come from somewhere. The closest I came to thinking he came up with one of his own was when he was 5. We were driving down the road and he started saying, "Here we are, lost in Downtown Charleston" He repeated it every time we got in the car. I thought it was cute. What I had forgotten was that he was watching home videos and that's exactly what I said on the video as I was filming us driving along.. by the way at the time I didn't not know that he had Asperger's, but I was aware of his mimicking and repetitive behavior. [B]I'm not done yet, please keep reading[/B] When my son started pre-K, he was fully potty trained. Day time, night time, pee and poo. I had no clue that he was on AS yet. The public school told me that he had some language delays and he was getting placed in the special class. I was shocked annoyed and aggravated, but said OK. Shortly after school started they called me in to discuss his masturbation issues. ????? He doesn't do that at home. Eventually I did notice it at home. OK, so the kid's giving himself a treat, steer him to the bedroom - this is stuff you do privately, son. Then one day he was in my room watching TV and he started calling me. When I got in there, his pants were off and there was a brown ball on the floor ????? Long story short, he was retaining his bowels until they exploded out of him. Turns out he was masturbating because he was getting erections because the impacted BM was pressing on his prostate. (pediatrician confirmed this all) I felt horrible that I hadn't noticed him retaining, but like any first time mom, you learn from your mistakes and move on. So I made sure he tried to have a BM every day. Oh he was so resistant. He REFUSED! I went over his diet with his Dr and was told that it was OK and shouldn't be causing this. Did get tips to make the diet looser. Finally I started asking him WHY he didn't want to poo. "Poopies are UGLY!" So he's turning 5 in a month, I have a baby on the way, and I have to do potty training again? UHG Nothing I said or did would convince him that it was a GOOD thing to put the poopies in the potty. One day I finally asked him WHY he thought popies were ugly. "Ms L says poopies are ugly" I just about blew my top! Ms L was the class aide. Apparently it was her job to help the special kids with the potty - some of whom weren't potty trained at all. Now my son did not need assistance in that capacity before he entered the classroom, Ms L NEVER assisted him personally, but just what he heard and observed created this new issue. It took [B][SIZE=5]3[/SIZE] [/B]years to get him to stop retaining his bowels. If both of these behaviors started at the same time, I'm willing to bet that there is a pretty serious problem in one of his environments. Totally possible that nothing REALLY bad is going on, but, like in my case, the caregiver is just and *****' idiot and being inappropriate, but you should investigate this further. by the way when he says these violent things, does he look or sound aggressive? Or does it look like your sweet innocent kid trying to play a role he's not cut out for? I'm concerned for your son, please keep me updated. [/QUOTE]
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