The other day at my family therapy session with husband, he was there in person, normally we do it over the phone. He works many hours and it's like an hour and a half away. My IOP said he needed to be there. So he went after working hard all day. My dietician came in to the session, never looking at me, or speaking to me. She told husband he needed a lawyer to get medical custody of me, so they could 302 me! WHAT? I'm right there, I listening to this. They told him that I am about 30 seconds away from losing my job, marrige and health. I never gain weight...I'm still here at this 91 pounds, even after spending 51/2 weeks IP. This cannot happen to me. Should I get a lawyer? Should I get separated? We love each other, but he will be VERY ANGRY if I lose my lob (I have until the 16th to get better)(But they still may not renew my contract for the fall= loss of job even if I magically gain some weight) This will be the end of this marrige if this happens. I need to avoid him getting a lawyer, I could be freaking commited against my will, and it won't be to someplace nice like you see on those reality tv shows- like the Dr. Drew addiction show where they live in that house, we're talking someplace bad that I can't go to! Can I get a lawyer first? I don't have money for this nonsense. Please don't say gain weight anyone, I know I am a hot mess regarding this. I can't be even 90 and feel big even now. I'm so scared of losing my job, although I did apply for disability just in case- but that is not what I want, I love my job. My cousin was last at work in Nov. 2011, she's bipolar and has already been approved. I sent everything out to that same company- the one that always advertises on tv, they get it quick. BUT, I'd rather go to work and not be in some mental institution without my life. I've tried to research what the weight limit is for commiting someone here in NJ. I found nothing. Maybe he won't do it. Things are going to go bad really quick around here either way. I'm whining, it's my fault, but I can't help it. I try to eat, but I can't really do much gaining only staying the same.