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34yo Difficult Child back in area, same ol, same ol
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 675812" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>We are so very far away from my folks so this has not been an issue, I thank God for that. Mom is in her 80's and wanted to reach out to my eldest through Facebook. I nipped that one in the bud. My eldest is anything but herself, and the values we raised her with. I think she could very easily manipulate my Mom, at her advanced age and tender heart.</p><p>I know SS, there is more history to your FOO, and I am so sorry for the pain of it. It is awful, to think our adult children can try to ruin our reputations with our families. I know my two are out there weaving confabulated stories of their <em>"horrible" </em>upbringing.</p><p></p><p>It hurts, but I know the truth, and the reason behind all of it. If they have someone to blame, they do not have to look at themselves in the mirror and accept responsibility for their choices. With me, it is my two, trying to drive the wedge between hubs and I. He has finally seemed to figure out the game of it (fingers and toes crossed). So, I do know the pain of this, <em>not with my parents</em>, with my hubs. Things are a bit better, with no contact....(their choice, not ours, they are <em>punishing us</em>....um kind of works out as a good break time for us -you know?)</p><p></p><p>You know who you are, and your strength rings loudly through your posts.</p><p>My heart goes out to you.</p><p>Keep your chin up dear.</p><p>A New Year is coming......<em>sigh.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Yes it does, most certainly, never ending......... but I have to tell you, this song popped into my head reading this......</p><p>[MEDIA=youtube]N43sM0Xd3NQ[/MEDIA]</p><p>Think I will put on some Sinatra.......</p><p></p><p>Hang in there love, hold onto that husband of yours and do something special for you guys......</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 675812, member: 19522"] We are so very far away from my folks so this has not been an issue, I thank God for that. Mom is in her 80's and wanted to reach out to my eldest through Facebook. I nipped that one in the bud. My eldest is anything but herself, and the values we raised her with. I think she could very easily manipulate my Mom, at her advanced age and tender heart. I know SS, there is more history to your FOO, and I am so sorry for the pain of it. It is awful, to think our adult children can try to ruin our reputations with our families. I know my two are out there weaving confabulated stories of their [I]"horrible" [/I]upbringing. It hurts, but I know the truth, and the reason behind all of it. If they have someone to blame, they do not have to look at themselves in the mirror and accept responsibility for their choices. With me, it is my two, trying to drive the wedge between hubs and I. He has finally seemed to figure out the game of it (fingers and toes crossed). So, I do know the pain of this, [I]not with my parents[/I], with my hubs. Things are a bit better, with no contact....(their choice, not ours, they are [I]punishing us[/I]....um kind of works out as a good break time for us -you know?) You know who you are, and your strength rings loudly through your posts. My heart goes out to you. Keep your chin up dear. A New Year is coming......[I]sigh. [/I] Yes it does, most certainly, never ending......... but I have to tell you, this song popped into my head reading this...... [MEDIA=youtube]N43sM0Xd3NQ[/MEDIA] Think I will put on some Sinatra....... Hang in there love, hold onto that husband of yours and do something special for you guys...... (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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