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34yo Difficult Child back in area, same ol, same ol
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 676592" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I would have never believed that such a place existed in me, a place beyond fear and anger.</p><p></p><p>In myself I found that it has to do only with locus of control. Not seeking anything particularly from him that I do not look for in any other person. Civility. </p><p></p><p>And going along living my life, where he plays only not even a supporting role, and certainly is no longer the star. </p><p></p><p>It helps me to see it this way. By naming a thing, I begin to achieve perspective. And some sense of control. He is no longer some essential, enveloping and unnamed part of me--namely everything. And with this shift, the anger recedes. </p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 676592, member: 18958"] I would have never believed that such a place existed in me, a place beyond fear and anger. In myself I found that it has to do only with locus of control. Not seeking anything particularly from him that I do not look for in any other person. Civility. And going along living my life, where he plays only not even a supporting role, and certainly is no longer the star. It helps me to see it this way. By naming a thing, I begin to achieve perspective. And some sense of control. He is no longer some essential, enveloping and unnamed part of me--namely everything. And with this shift, the anger recedes. COPA [/QUOTE]
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