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36 hours after release from jail, difficult child is high and drunk...
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 618376" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>It is so extremely hard to understand what reasoning is behind their choices, or lack of.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child is older than yours and STILL is not able to connect the dots. He still has an off and on relationship with a female difficult child that is a disaster. They fight, he threatens suicide and cuts himself, and still get back together. All of his friends (the ones still speaking to him) and family (the ones still speaking to him) have told him he needs to leave her, he can do so much better.</p><p></p><p>For whatever the attraction , in my opinion they are both just like, but she does like to control and he follows. At this point I have zero ways to communicate with my difficult child again. He likes to disappear when they have a fight and split up. </p><p></p><p>After a year of no contact with my difficult child (his choice) I took the time to focus on me, and after he contacted me he was working. If he is not doing better, I am!</p><p></p><p>It is amazing how they can make the same bad choices over and over and not learn from them. Another thing I have noticed in difficult children is how immature and self absorbed they are.</p><p></p><p>You can not change they past and you can not change him, you can only take care of you. If anyone had told me I would have a son that behaved like mine I never would have believed them.</p><p></p><p>We all know how hard this is, take care of you.</p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 618376, member: 13558"] It is so extremely hard to understand what reasoning is behind their choices, or lack of. My difficult child is older than yours and STILL is not able to connect the dots. He still has an off and on relationship with a female difficult child that is a disaster. They fight, he threatens suicide and cuts himself, and still get back together. All of his friends (the ones still speaking to him) and family (the ones still speaking to him) have told him he needs to leave her, he can do so much better. For whatever the attraction , in my opinion they are both just like, but she does like to control and he follows. At this point I have zero ways to communicate with my difficult child again. He likes to disappear when they have a fight and split up. After a year of no contact with my difficult child (his choice) I took the time to focus on me, and after he contacted me he was working. If he is not doing better, I am! It is amazing how they can make the same bad choices over and over and not learn from them. Another thing I have noticed in difficult children is how immature and self absorbed they are. You can not change they past and you can not change him, you can only take care of you. If anyone had told me I would have a son that behaved like mine I never would have believed them. We all know how hard this is, take care of you. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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