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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 639361" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>He is pretty mean, huh? All I hear in those txts is the intent to hurt and upset you. I don't hear any tiny little thing about ownership of his own life. He is a bully, at least he bullies you.</p><p></p><p>I agree that he is ramping up because at some level he is convinced that escalating will get him what he wants (money from you).</p><p></p><p>This is NOT OK. There is nothing OK about a 40 something year old living off his mom with no plan or intention to change. You need to change this. He won't do it himself because it is easier for him to bully you into letting him continue as he has done. </p><p></p><p>It is normal to feel anxious when you changet he status quo...you too, were in the status quo for a reason..because it was COMFORTABLE and FAMILIAR, even thought it wasn't RIGHT. He liked the comfortable and familiar too. Both of you are anxious. Both of you need to work it out..you by detaching and him by learning to be accountable for his own life.</p><p></p><p>Good luck, Marie. It is so very very hard. </p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 639361, member: 17269"] He is pretty mean, huh? All I hear in those txts is the intent to hurt and upset you. I don't hear any tiny little thing about ownership of his own life. He is a bully, at least he bullies you. I agree that he is ramping up because at some level he is convinced that escalating will get him what he wants (money from you). This is NOT OK. There is nothing OK about a 40 something year old living off his mom with no plan or intention to change. You need to change this. He won't do it himself because it is easier for him to bully you into letting him continue as he has done. It is normal to feel anxious when you changet he status quo...you too, were in the status quo for a reason..because it was COMFORTABLE and FAMILIAR, even thought it wasn't RIGHT. He liked the comfortable and familiar too. Both of you are anxious. Both of you need to work it out..you by detaching and him by learning to be accountable for his own life. Good luck, Marie. It is so very very hard. Echo [/QUOTE]
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