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4YO Daughter diagnosis with ODD - Need advice
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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 86073" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! Welcome to the club! You're going to get a lot of advice on here from a really experienced group of people.</p><p></p><p>Don't feel guilty - if they came with an instruction manual when they were born, and you ignored it THEN you'd have a reason to feel guilty - no book, no guilt!!! :wink:</p><p></p><p>Get a copy of Ross Greene's book "The Explosive Child". It's an easy read (not a lot of technospeak!) and he gives you a lot of insight about how your childs brain works. </p><p></p><p>Get a neuropsychologist evaluation. done. ODD rarely stands alone and this is the best way to see what might be going on.</p><p></p><p>As for everyone having an opinion: it's true...everyone has an opinion. Most of them are wrong and no one cares to hear them. </p><p></p><p>The thing about our kids is that everyone thinks a spanking will cure it. "If you'd just let that kid know who's boss, she'd stop it!". Yeah right! My dad was that way. Then I posed the question to him: If he was in a wheelchair, would you throw him out of it and then tell him to change the channel on the tv? The criticism stopped! :hammer:</p><p></p><p>If you were a lousy mother, you wouldn't be worried and trying to investigate! :smile:</p><p></p><p>Keep your chin up!</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 86073, member: 3814"] Hi! Welcome to the club! You're going to get a lot of advice on here from a really experienced group of people. Don't feel guilty - if they came with an instruction manual when they were born, and you ignored it THEN you'd have a reason to feel guilty - no book, no guilt!!! [img]:wink:[/img] Get a copy of Ross Greene's book "The Explosive Child". It's an easy read (not a lot of technospeak!) and he gives you a lot of insight about how your childs brain works. Get a neuropsychologist evaluation. done. ODD rarely stands alone and this is the best way to see what might be going on. As for everyone having an opinion: it's true...everyone has an opinion. Most of them are wrong and no one cares to hear them. The thing about our kids is that everyone thinks a spanking will cure it. "If you'd just let that kid know who's boss, she'd stop it!". Yeah right! My dad was that way. Then I posed the question to him: If he was in a wheelchair, would you throw him out of it and then tell him to change the channel on the tv? The criticism stopped! [img]:hammer:[/img] If you were a lousy mother, you wouldn't be worried and trying to investigate! [img]:smile:[/img] Keep your chin up! Beth [/QUOTE]
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