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5 reasons to stop saying ' Good Job ' - Alfie Kohn
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<blockquote data-quote="SRL" data-source="post: 15640" data-attributes="member: 701"><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p> One thing we have found really successful is our newest Behaviour Modification type plan which we call "Brother Points", I have a sheet with numbers 1-100 on a chart and whenever we see either of them doing a nice brotherly type thing, I give them a point. This way, it encourages them to be kind to each other, by sharing, playing nicely, hugging etc... </p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>Wow, I'm impressed by how much work goes into that! The summer that easy child Sr. and difficult child spent in nonstop fighting and nothing else worked I cut straight to the core and paid easy child Sr. to make good choices when it came to treating difficult child. Cost me 50 cents a day and was some of the best money I ever spent. It worked so well I would have been willing to go a dollar...</p><p></p><p>No hugging though. That would have cost too much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SRL, post: 15640, member: 701"] [ QUOTE ] One thing we have found really successful is our newest Behaviour Modification type plan which we call "Brother Points", I have a sheet with numbers 1-100 on a chart and whenever we see either of them doing a nice brotherly type thing, I give them a point. This way, it encourages them to be kind to each other, by sharing, playing nicely, hugging etc... [/ QUOTE ] Wow, I'm impressed by how much work goes into that! The summer that easy child Sr. and difficult child spent in nonstop fighting and nothing else worked I cut straight to the core and paid easy child Sr. to make good choices when it came to treating difficult child. Cost me 50 cents a day and was some of the best money I ever spent. It worked so well I would have been willing to go a dollar... No hugging though. That would have cost too much. [/QUOTE]
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