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5 reasons to stop saying ' Good Job ' - Alfie Kohn
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<blockquote data-quote="givnmegryhr" data-source="post: 16860" data-attributes="member: 2113"><p>So far everything we have tried is shortlived. I do agree that rewarding constantly creates a child that wants something to do anything. I always get the "Do I get paid for it?" and I always answer "No, do I?" I will however give verbal praise when do. I think everyone including all of us like being told good job. Who doesnt like recognition? I know I have heard several times how men thrive on praise and even seek it out! How often has your husbands said , " I washed the dishes "or listed all of the things they did that day. Of course most of the time I think ,or even say"Do you want I should throw a party?" LOL . You get my point.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="givnmegryhr, post: 16860, member: 2113"] So far everything we have tried is shortlived. I do agree that rewarding constantly creates a child that wants something to do anything. I always get the "Do I get paid for it?" and I always answer "No, do I?" I will however give verbal praise when do. I think everyone including all of us like being told good job. Who doesnt like recognition? I know I have heard several times how men thrive on praise and even seek it out! How often has your husbands said , " I washed the dishes "or listed all of the things they did that day. Of course most of the time I think ,or even say"Do you want I should throw a party?" LOL . You get my point. [/QUOTE]
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