BusynMember
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But what I went through was once in a while. I did not see my parents ALL THE TIME. So I was mostly with nice, undemanding prople, except for my difficult child (grrrrrrrrrr). And since he left, life has been pretty serene. I just learned to pace myself with abusive people...keep them where I could limit contact. I could not live with chronic chaos. By my age, I'd have heart disease, high blood pressure, and be on death's doorstep myself...lol. I want to be healthy and live a long life so I can see my grandchildren get married and beyond!!!
in my opinion your priority should be yourself and your kids so we will agree to disagree. I don't think your grandfather should be taking up so much of your time and am kind of puzzled at why you are making that decision or why you think only family should care for the man. Understand that you are choosing this. You have other options. Your kids in my opinion need a calmer environment. Seems they get shafted by grandpa.
But I wish you good luck and hope you can figure it all out
in my opinion your priority should be yourself and your kids so we will agree to disagree. I don't think your grandfather should be taking up so much of your time and am kind of puzzled at why you are making that decision or why you think only family should care for the man. Understand that you are choosing this. You have other options. Your kids in my opinion need a calmer environment. Seems they get shafted by grandpa.
But I wish you good luck and hope you can figure it all out