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<blockquote data-quote="Mamaof5" data-source="post: 507738"><p>... I'll probably be divorced (or at least separated). Today was an eye opener (lovely timing for V-Day, I always cry on V-Day and not in a good way).</p><p></p><p>One of his online male friends has a girlfriend that I both removed and blocked from his facebook a while back (he asked me who I found appropriate and inappropriate on his list, this is HIS request) and the male friend asked why was she blocked\defriended...</p><p></p><p>His answer: my wife is insecure and strict right now, I'm hoping it dies down and I can add people back</p><p></p><p>REALLY? REAAAALLYYY!!!</p><p></p><p>It just shows me a. he doesn't give a rat's **** about what I think compared to what others think of him and b. that he doesn't truly understand what his cheating did to our relationship</p><p></p><p>the point c is he expects to fix it without doing a damned thing about it. He wants it fixed without the heavy lifting involved in fixing it. I'm done carrying his poo poo when he won't own up to his own poo poo. I've given him the ultimatum of 6 months to really pick up his socks and do heavy lifting to fix this relationship while I look for a place of my own and save for first and last.</p><p></p><p>I can't give anymore because he's taken it all and hasn't given a damned thing back. If he doesn't start tipping the give and take scale back my way I won't even make the 6 months I gave him as an ultimatum.</p><p></p><p>He thinks I'm a leash pulling stict and insecure tyrant...well he's the one who created this dang monster and doesn't even realize it. I'm done being last, I'm done not being respected, and appreciated.</p><p></p><p>At least I have a job. *sigh*</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamaof5, post: 507738"] ... I'll probably be divorced (or at least separated). Today was an eye opener (lovely timing for V-Day, I always cry on V-Day and not in a good way). One of his online male friends has a girlfriend that I both removed and blocked from his facebook a while back (he asked me who I found appropriate and inappropriate on his list, this is HIS request) and the male friend asked why was she blocked\defriended... His answer: my wife is insecure and strict right now, I'm hoping it dies down and I can add people back REALLY? REAAAALLYYY!!! It just shows me a. he doesn't give a rat's **** about what I think compared to what others think of him and b. that he doesn't truly understand what his cheating did to our relationship the point c is he expects to fix it without doing a damned thing about it. He wants it fixed without the heavy lifting involved in fixing it. I'm done carrying his poo poo when he won't own up to his own poo poo. I've given him the ultimatum of 6 months to really pick up his socks and do heavy lifting to fix this relationship while I look for a place of my own and save for first and last. I can't give anymore because he's taken it all and hasn't given a damned thing back. If he doesn't start tipping the give and take scale back my way I won't even make the 6 months I gave him as an ultimatum. He thinks I'm a leash pulling stict and insecure tyrant...well he's the one who created this dang monster and doesn't even realize it. I'm done being last, I'm done not being respected, and appreciated. At least I have a job. *sigh* [/QUOTE]
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