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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 508841" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>It sounds to me that there are stages one must have to go thru to ever get past this, whether the marriage survives or not. It sounds like you are still in the anger stage, not saying this is wrong but just a phase similar to ones after a loved one dies. I don't think you've moved past wanting to punish him to forgiving him, then deciding you can trust him again. I have no idea how long each phase "should" last, but I am not so sure either of you can be happy together unless and until you get to the forgiveness part and trust him again. OK, in all honesty, I got part of that from a previous Dr. P show on infidelity.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 508841, member: 3699"] It sounds to me that there are stages one must have to go thru to ever get past this, whether the marriage survives or not. It sounds like you are still in the anger stage, not saying this is wrong but just a phase similar to ones after a loved one dies. I don't think you've moved past wanting to punish him to forgiving him, then deciding you can trust him again. I have no idea how long each phase "should" last, but I am not so sure either of you can be happy together unless and until you get to the forgiveness part and trust him again. OK, in all honesty, I got part of that from a previous Dr. P show on infidelity. [/QUOTE]
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