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<blockquote data-quote="Lost in sadness" data-source="post: 746527" data-attributes="member: 21056"><p>Thank you all so much for your honest (and frank) advice. I was reminded of the support I found here previously and again today. For that I am grateful.</p><p>I must have sensed a storm that made me reach out......today he lost that job.</p><p>I cannot tell you the heartache I felt/feel. I was resolved that he must leave. That he had a job, money and he must find his own way. Now I feel 'stuck'.</p><p>My daughter came home from school today and got into a terrible fight with him and he called her a c*nt, reared up to her and hit her door. She was alone and scared of him. She is devastated and quite frankly looks ill. She took herself to bed. I am torn as he has his side to the story also. Either way it cannot continue.</p><p>I will look for somewhere for him to go even if I pay myself for the first month and let him sort himself out. It feels so painful that he still says I choose my husband over him and that he is my son and I treat him badly and have pushed him out. I feel guilty, I question myself if this is true but feel sure it is manipulation. Either way, it doesn't sit well with me that he would feel unloved and alone in this world.</p><p>I have texted his girlfriend and told her directly she cannot stay.</p><p>Not a good day. Thank you all! xx</p><p>PS, I am listening. Truly. its just so hard. xx</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lost in sadness, post: 746527, member: 21056"] Thank you all so much for your honest (and frank) advice. I was reminded of the support I found here previously and again today. For that I am grateful. I must have sensed a storm that made me reach out......today he lost that job. I cannot tell you the heartache I felt/feel. I was resolved that he must leave. That he had a job, money and he must find his own way. Now I feel 'stuck'. My daughter came home from school today and got into a terrible fight with him and he called her a c*nt, reared up to her and hit her door. She was alone and scared of him. She is devastated and quite frankly looks ill. She took herself to bed. I am torn as he has his side to the story also. Either way it cannot continue. I will look for somewhere for him to go even if I pay myself for the first month and let him sort himself out. It feels so painful that he still says I choose my husband over him and that he is my son and I treat him badly and have pushed him out. I feel guilty, I question myself if this is true but feel sure it is manipulation. Either way, it doesn't sit well with me that he would feel unloved and alone in this world. I have texted his girlfriend and told her directly she cannot stay. Not a good day. Thank you all! xx PS, I am listening. Truly. its just so hard. xx [/QUOTE]
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