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<blockquote data-quote="Lost in sadness" data-source="post: 746562" data-attributes="member: 21056">Hi KathyThank you for your messages.&nbsp; I am in the UK so I guess there are some differences.&nbsp; There is no other options for him to go at the moment.&nbsp; Homelessness is a real problem here.&nbsp; He went to a young peoples homeless hostel year before last and even got thrown out of there by not abiding the rules.&nbsp; The council won't help him again. Its like he doesn't see that rules apply to him.&nbsp; Time and time again he repeats the cycle.My husband and I are looking for a house share that doesn't need references and thats where he will go and have to find his way from there.&nbsp; My husband is currently working away and so it is just my daughter and I in the week.&nbsp; This is adding to his behavior because he thinks he can.&nbsp; I know he treats me as I allow and I have to stop.&nbsp; We have a very toxic relationship and sometimes I stoop as low as him with my words.&nbsp; I am ashamed I am no stronger.&nbsp; What example does this set?&nbsp; These are the reasons it is so hard but I am determined to break free from this cycle.&nbsp; Maybe then, one day we can grow our relationship.&nbsp; Thank you for your support. xx</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Lost in sadness, post: 746562, member: 21056"] Hi Kathy Thank you for your messages. I am in the UK so I guess there are some differences. There is no other options for him to go at the moment. Homelessness is a real problem here. He went to a young peoples homeless hostel year before last and even got thrown out of there by not abiding the rules. The council won't help him again. Its like he doesn't see that rules apply to him. Time and time again he repeats the cycle. My husband and I are looking for a house share that doesn't need references and thats where he will go and have to find his way from there. My husband is currently working away and so it is just my daughter and I in the week. This is adding to his behavior because he thinks he can. I know he treats me as I allow and I have to stop. We have a very toxic relationship and sometimes I stoop as low as him with my words. I am ashamed I am no stronger. What example does this set? These are the reasons it is so hard but I am determined to break free from this cycle. Maybe then, one day we can grow our relationship. Thank you for your support. xx [/QUOTE]

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