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<blockquote data-quote="Rosetries" data-source="post: 421853" data-attributes="member: 11688"><p>Oh thank you everyone for writing back. Thank you, I didn't get any emails so I assumed that whatever happened to the post, happened.</p><p></p><p>The Explosive Child - we have it. Are there any other books recommended?</p><p></p><p>neuropsychologist, ok, good, wonderful, it feels like there is some direction here. Again, Thank you. She will have a good few hours and then back to it. </p><p></p><p>I wonder if we write down the schedule she will be happier. In no way can we just go anywhere, like we could with our son. She does not want to go anywhere. </p><p></p><p>No chance of sexual abuse, as a survivor, I am keenly aware of it all and thankfully she is good in that regard.</p><p></p><p>I have begun to have anxiety attacks. They are so awful, it is like a fear is holding you underwater and you can't breathe and everything horrible is happening to everyone you love. </p><p></p><p>I wonder if Lydia feels like that when she is flipping out. Breaking mirrors, destroying things she loves.</p><p></p><p>I wonder if being ill and allowing my husband to take care of business while I recuperated.</p><p></p><p>I guess we can second guess ourselves but what I have found here is dedicated loving parents. </p><p></p><p>I don't get it, she is really cruel for no apparent reason. Our son is so different so so so different. He thinks we don't punish her enough, with him we put him in time out in his room a few times and all was well. Lydia hates timeouts, we have to hold the door and it makes us feel cruel. </p><p></p><p>I remember how much it must of hurt her little body to contort her way out of her seat when she was just 3.</p><p></p><p>We had a fire when she was 3. I think that changed her. She didn't like anything thrown away. She would get into the garbage to pick things out. Mainly I think because the cleaners had our stuff that was smoke damaged on the front lawn. I got her out and to the neighbors while I tried to get our cats out (they all made it, we ended up with severe damage to the laundry room and severe smoke damage, she loved staying in a hotel, she still LOVES hotels).</p><p></p><p>I just heard on Diane Roehm that 'Fragile X' syndrome can be tested?</p><p></p><p>I dunno, I like to go into anything with as much information as possible.</p><p></p><p>She is in after care, she loves it! She likes being there. We need to be more structured.</p><p></p><p>Structure is good for Lu. She can be happier then, less anxiety.</p><p></p><p>If she is having anxiety attacks, that makes me ache, they are so awful. I can try to talk myself down but she has so few coping skills outside of us.</p><p></p><p>Thank you a million times,</p><p></p><p>Rose</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rosetries, post: 421853, member: 11688"] Oh thank you everyone for writing back. Thank you, I didn't get any emails so I assumed that whatever happened to the post, happened. The Explosive Child - we have it. Are there any other books recommended? neuropsychologist, ok, good, wonderful, it feels like there is some direction here. Again, Thank you. She will have a good few hours and then back to it. I wonder if we write down the schedule she will be happier. In no way can we just go anywhere, like we could with our son. She does not want to go anywhere. No chance of sexual abuse, as a survivor, I am keenly aware of it all and thankfully she is good in that regard. I have begun to have anxiety attacks. They are so awful, it is like a fear is holding you underwater and you can't breathe and everything horrible is happening to everyone you love. I wonder if Lydia feels like that when she is flipping out. Breaking mirrors, destroying things she loves. I wonder if being ill and allowing my husband to take care of business while I recuperated. I guess we can second guess ourselves but what I have found here is dedicated loving parents. I don't get it, she is really cruel for no apparent reason. Our son is so different so so so different. He thinks we don't punish her enough, with him we put him in time out in his room a few times and all was well. Lydia hates timeouts, we have to hold the door and it makes us feel cruel. I remember how much it must of hurt her little body to contort her way out of her seat when she was just 3. We had a fire when she was 3. I think that changed her. She didn't like anything thrown away. She would get into the garbage to pick things out. Mainly I think because the cleaners had our stuff that was smoke damaged on the front lawn. I got her out and to the neighbors while I tried to get our cats out (they all made it, we ended up with severe damage to the laundry room and severe smoke damage, she loved staying in a hotel, she still LOVES hotels). I just heard on Diane Roehm that 'Fragile X' syndrome can be tested? I dunno, I like to go into anything with as much information as possible. She is in after care, she loves it! She likes being there. We need to be more structured. Structure is good for Lu. She can be happier then, less anxiety. If she is having anxiety attacks, that makes me ache, they are so awful. I can try to talk myself down but she has so few coping skills outside of us. Thank you a million times, Rose [/QUOTE]
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