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A difficult child's version of "Do to Get"
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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 210310"><p>It sounds like you need something more immediate since the long term effect is not working. I can see that 'if I'm still grounded for 2 weeks, why bother'. It's immaturity, but it's age appropriate for a 12 year old. It sounds like you need a more immediate payoff. After you do your chores, you have cell phone privileges or computer privileges, or friends, whatever. If she's going to be grounded all weekend or 2 weeks regardless I can see her just not bothering.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 210310"] It sounds like you need something more immediate since the long term effect is not working. I can see that 'if I'm still grounded for 2 weeks, why bother'. It's immaturity, but it's age appropriate for a 12 year old. It sounds like you need a more immediate payoff. After you do your chores, you have cell phone privileges or computer privileges, or friends, whatever. If she's going to be grounded all weekend or 2 weeks regardless I can see her just not bothering. [/QUOTE]
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