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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665085" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Being pretty good at this Difficult Child thing, I would be very surprised if they even used condoms. If he has another kid, he may be liable for child support X2 if the family goes to court. Actually if ex's family goes to court and he is DNA'd (which they can order at your expense) to have a DNA test that child may take a chunk out of his money if he works at all or gets SS already. This commonly happens, even when the father doesn't see the child. The courts garnish any assets they have. The punishment for non-payment can be taking the driver's license to jail. Depends on the state and situation. It isn't smart at all to have unprotected or even condom protected sex unless you are married and well established or at least committed and well established because it costs.</p><p></p><p>But...not your circus/not your monkies.</p><p></p><p>I doubt he'll make it in subsidized housing. Lil tried that with her son and her son is better behaved. But it's a good step down for the parent to take in order to feel he/she has tried absolutely everything to help the child. </p><p></p><p>Many Aspies live on their own as do people with bipolar. If he needs some community services they aer available to the disabled, but first he has to be willing to apply for disability and then if you are non-compliant, the services won't help.</p><p></p><p>Can you get to be his payee? I am the payee for autistic son. He can pretty much live on his own and is VERY responsble, but not with money. He will spend it all in one lump and he knows it. So he is ok with me being payee for his social security and part-time work pay. This way he always has all his bills up to date. But he also takes good care of his apartment and doesn't do drugs.</p><p></p><p>These kids are so complicated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665085, member: 1550"] Being pretty good at this Difficult Child thing, I would be very surprised if they even used condoms. If he has another kid, he may be liable for child support X2 if the family goes to court. Actually if ex's family goes to court and he is DNA'd (which they can order at your expense) to have a DNA test that child may take a chunk out of his money if he works at all or gets SS already. This commonly happens, even when the father doesn't see the child. The courts garnish any assets they have. The punishment for non-payment can be taking the driver's license to jail. Depends on the state and situation. It isn't smart at all to have unprotected or even condom protected sex unless you are married and well established or at least committed and well established because it costs. But...not your circus/not your monkies. I doubt he'll make it in subsidized housing. Lil tried that with her son and her son is better behaved. But it's a good step down for the parent to take in order to feel he/she has tried absolutely everything to help the child. Many Aspies live on their own as do people with bipolar. If he needs some community services they aer available to the disabled, but first he has to be willing to apply for disability and then if you are non-compliant, the services won't help. Can you get to be his payee? I am the payee for autistic son. He can pretty much live on his own and is VERY responsble, but not with money. He will spend it all in one lump and he knows it. So he is ok with me being payee for his social security and part-time work pay. This way he always has all his bills up to date. But he also takes good care of his apartment and doesn't do drugs. These kids are so complicated. [/QUOTE]
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