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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751713" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Great job. Hard job.</p><p></p><p>We will often not be allowed to be heard. Some of our kids don't want to hear it and don't care about our feelings or do not want a fair fight. They talk over us. They don't hear us.</p><p></p><p> Kay is this way We never try to justify what we do with spoken words to her. That makes her tirade ramp up to levels that will hurt us for weeks and that make us doubt our good, hard decisions. And of course that is the point. That is what they want. To bring us to our knees until we give in. Until they are our boss, telling us what to do and we do it. How old does your son have to get until he doesn't want or need a money machine mommy? How long do you want to be?</p><p></p><p>Kay wants one forever but I quit. You did too. I say great. And your son has more resources than you knew. Is he on drugs? That is pricey and often funded by us. We don't know it, but we do it. We believe what they say they use the money for. These types of adults do not tell us the truth. They just don't.</p><p></p><p>How dare your son bother you at work where you have been making money to give him gas and food money? How dare he anyway.</p><p></p><p>I would never have given this advice a few years ago, but I think you need to get a no contact restraining order against him so he legally can't call you at work or anywhere.</p><p></p><p>I forgot that Kay threatened to disrupt our business but we told her we would regret it, but we needed to protect our business and that if she even tried we would legally prevent it. She knew we meant it. Our business was hard fought and even she will not destroy it. She never did go through with her threat. She could tell we were dead serious.</p><p></p><p>Keep being the strong soldier we all need to be. Value your life. Forget guilt. It is your son and my daughter who should feel regret, if anyone does.</p><p></p><p>God bless you and be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751713, member: 23706"] Great job. Hard job. We will often not be allowed to be heard. Some of our kids don't want to hear it and don't care about our feelings or do not want a fair fight. They talk over us. They don't hear us. Kay is this way We never try to justify what we do with spoken words to her. That makes her tirade ramp up to levels that will hurt us for weeks and that make us doubt our good, hard decisions. And of course that is the point. That is what they want. To bring us to our knees until we give in. Until they are our boss, telling us what to do and we do it. How old does your son have to get until he doesn't want or need a money machine mommy? How long do you want to be? Kay wants one forever but I quit. You did too. I say great. And your son has more resources than you knew. Is he on drugs? That is pricey and often funded by us. We don't know it, but we do it. We believe what they say they use the money for. These types of adults do not tell us the truth. They just don't. How dare your son bother you at work where you have been making money to give him gas and food money? How dare he anyway. I would never have given this advice a few years ago, but I think you need to get a no contact restraining order against him so he legally can't call you at work or anywhere. I forgot that Kay threatened to disrupt our business but we told her we would regret it, but we needed to protect our business and that if she even tried we would legally prevent it. She knew we meant it. Our business was hard fought and even she will not destroy it. She never did go through with her threat. She could tell we were dead serious. Keep being the strong soldier we all need to be. Value your life. Forget guilt. It is your son and my daughter who should feel regret, if anyone does. God bless you and be well. [/QUOTE]
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