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A Job? School? Me? A baby sounds like a good solution.
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 548965" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Sorry to hear she even considers a baby as an answer. Do you know, or what do you suspect is a reason why she doesn't want a job or go to school? I'm sure she could find an easier job than garden and maintenance with better benefits than you give her. What do you think is her real reason? It can't be just laziness because it is not like she is just sitting around and playing video games now. Is the problem in job hunting? Anxiety over making phone calls, having interviews, fear of rejection? Or maybe starting a job and being afraid about not learning, not getting along with boss and workmates, fear of failure? Or being unable to handle uncertainty? Or something else?</p><p></p><p>Pretending to go to work, to me, is a major sign of something more than laziness. Wanting to please, being afraid of failure or being seen as such, being unable to cope with the situation all together.</p><p></p><p>Do you have any kind of job coaching, support programs or workshops for people having difficulty to find work or young people in danger of becoming marginalized? Could something like that be something that could help?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 548965, member: 14557"] Sorry to hear she even considers a baby as an answer. Do you know, or what do you suspect is a reason why she doesn't want a job or go to school? I'm sure she could find an easier job than garden and maintenance with better benefits than you give her. What do you think is her real reason? It can't be just laziness because it is not like she is just sitting around and playing video games now. Is the problem in job hunting? Anxiety over making phone calls, having interviews, fear of rejection? Or maybe starting a job and being afraid about not learning, not getting along with boss and workmates, fear of failure? Or being unable to handle uncertainty? Or something else? Pretending to go to work, to me, is a major sign of something more than laziness. Wanting to please, being afraid of failure or being seen as such, being unable to cope with the situation all together. Do you have any kind of job coaching, support programs or workshops for people having difficulty to find work or young people in danger of becoming marginalized? Could something like that be something that could help? [/QUOTE]
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