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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 100739" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I know it is hard for some to think this way, but if you want them to be there for you, honestly to be there for you, I would just keep contacting them. Send the photos, send the updates, let them know in a non-groveling way you are struggling. </p><p>Remain confident, say, I know something positive will happen for us, we are trying to get a car if any one has any suggestions for us please let us know, we are trying to get one? Be open... </p><p></p><p>Be the bigger person. Just because they are blood doesn't make them follow the path of how you see the role of a family. </p><p></p><p>I know we would all like to have a wonderful warm caring tight family... but for most of us that is not the reality, don't let it eat up your soul. </p><p>Things like someone thinking you should have an abortion, that is their opinion, their right to freedom to freedom of thought. Whatever your beliefs, you can't make others believe what you do. You say you want people to take you as you are? You have to do the same. </p><p>Let it go, you have a beautiful son and you have accomplished something wonderful!!! </p><p>You will do something wonderful with your life!!! Please don't hold on to the anger... I don't have a close family and that is their choice and their loss... so be it!</p><p></p><p>Hugs to you my friend</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 100739, member: 3155"] I know it is hard for some to think this way, but if you want them to be there for you, honestly to be there for you, I would just keep contacting them. Send the photos, send the updates, let them know in a non-groveling way you are struggling. Remain confident, say, I know something positive will happen for us, we are trying to get a car if any one has any suggestions for us please let us know, we are trying to get one? Be open... Be the bigger person. Just because they are blood doesn't make them follow the path of how you see the role of a family. I know we would all like to have a wonderful warm caring tight family... but for most of us that is not the reality, don't let it eat up your soul. Things like someone thinking you should have an abortion, that is their opinion, their right to freedom to freedom of thought. Whatever your beliefs, you can't make others believe what you do. You say you want people to take you as you are? You have to do the same. Let it go, you have a beautiful son and you have accomplished something wonderful!!! You will do something wonderful with your life!!! Please don't hold on to the anger... I don't have a close family and that is their choice and their loss... so be it! Hugs to you my friend [/QUOTE]
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