father in law is having open-heart surgery. I found out last Friday from my Mom of all people. She was working at the church when my mother in law called to tell the Pastor about the upcoming surgery. No one on DHs side of the family told either of us about it. I set a text to difficult child-S asking for information. I then told husband and he called his Mom to see what was up. Both EG and difficult child-S let us know that the surgery was going to be Saturday the 20th. Since when do they schedule surgeries for a Saturday? I knew it was a lie. And I got confirmation today on sister in law's facebook page. The surgery is on Monday. So, do I tell husband what I know, or just continue to believe the lie that they told us??? I really dislike this family. Oh, but on the plus side, the family that doesn't talk to me about anything, did sent a message through easy child that difficult child-S is just totally doing great! She's perfect in every way except for failing all her classes but that's no big deal. Oh and EG got her her very own car! Whoo-hoo for the perfect difficult child. (I know, venting instead of detaching) Anyways, I'd love some advice on whether to tell husband or not?