This is not like any subject that I've heard since I've been with you guys, but here goes. Do any of you have a husband that spends too much time out in the garage or outside, away from the family? My husband is a great provider, he goes to work everyday and comes straight home. Only to go right into the garage and build something or outside to do "yard work". I can just call out to him if I need something and he's there. But everyday!? Never in the house, doesn't sit on the couch with us as a family. DOES eat with us at the table, but then in the shower and right to bed. QT only once in a blue blue blue moon. I don't say anything to him 'cause at least he's there, but inside it hurts sometimes. I'm always inside with the 3 boys doing all the family stuff. The cooking, cleaning, hugging, playing, talking, homework, projects, and even the yelling, and dealing with all the things we as parents have to deal with. He brings home the bacon, and I stay home. Actually, I do put in 20 hrs/week , so I am contributing a little. But mostly I do the mental job at home and he rarely contributes to that. He is a great provider though. I painted an honest picture for all of you. So let me have it! Am I being too easy on him, or should I get on him to be with us more? You be the judge!