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I took Q to the main therapy center (connected to the one he goes to for Occupational Therapist (OT), SLT, PT, counseling)... and he had an intake for a teen/young adult boys group for guys with brain injuries. He talked to the behavior person for about 45 minutes then she talked to me...she got him right away and said, he is the kind of kid the mental health system can really mess up. Every once in a while it is nice to be in a place where they really do understand brain injury and you dont feel like the one with the crazy kid. I met the other boys that came that day while they were waiting for group. One Q's age and two 18. One does not speak English much but LOVES race cars and had a race car shirt on. they ALL had scars all over their heads and Q always feels like he is the only one. (his was the most subtle actually... his hair covers it a little better than theirs but he was so young and his head grew and it flattened out really well. Still it is a huge question mark from his right ear up the side and circling back along the side of his head. None of them were white and I think he liked that too. (he is often the only one of color)
He had planned to tell the person that I had made bruises on his arm (He sucked on it and bit on it to make bruises like mine...no luck, mine are all colors with scabs from the nails he dug in) and I was able to pull her aside and let her know that I had told him she had the power to tell if he lied, she told him ... I can tell you sucked on it and he said you can TELL I did it??? He had already confessed to doing it himself but he was shocked she knew how. He had told her he did it himself to get me into trouble. She said no one would believe him so he said oh, OK.
Anyway, after the meeting which she said actually went well (but her question... is he always moving around like that, LOL???)
He then tried 45 minutes of the group. Then he came out for their break and the guys went back alone.. she said he did great... she thought it will work out. She is going to talk to the other facilitator who was on vacation but she thinks it would be a good fit. She doesn't seem put off by the fact he can be aggressive but said she did tell him that none of these guys does that or likes that so she asked what he will do if he is upset. He told her he woudl want to go for a walk and then SHE could get over it. LOL!!!!
She said ok, he can walk the hall but he can't go in the elevators or anything like that. He agreed (yeah, we will see).
I really hope they can get to know him because they are a bridge for support for him in the future with vocational and independent living options.
She is going to call next week when her partner is back...
He had planned to tell the person that I had made bruises on his arm (He sucked on it and bit on it to make bruises like mine...no luck, mine are all colors with scabs from the nails he dug in) and I was able to pull her aside and let her know that I had told him she had the power to tell if he lied, she told him ... I can tell you sucked on it and he said you can TELL I did it??? He had already confessed to doing it himself but he was shocked she knew how. He had told her he did it himself to get me into trouble. She said no one would believe him so he said oh, OK.
Anyway, after the meeting which she said actually went well (but her question... is he always moving around like that, LOL???)
He then tried 45 minutes of the group. Then he came out for their break and the guys went back alone.. she said he did great... she thought it will work out. She is going to talk to the other facilitator who was on vacation but she thinks it would be a good fit. She doesn't seem put off by the fact he can be aggressive but said she did tell him that none of these guys does that or likes that so she asked what he will do if he is upset. He told her he woudl want to go for a walk and then SHE could get over it. LOL!!!!
She said ok, he can walk the hall but he can't go in the elevators or anything like that. He agreed (yeah, we will see).
I really hope they can get to know him because they are a bridge for support for him in the future with vocational and independent living options.
She is going to call next week when her partner is back...