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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 164233" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>My Mother - in regards to any boy I dated except my now DF would always change the subject or say something like </p><p> </p><p>Well you married him - isn't he the greatest and "we always have your bed here if YOU want it." emphasis on YOU. And while I hated it - it was what I needed to hear. In other words - if I thought he was so great, convinced everyone he was great and married him and moved in with him - I wasnt' getting any of her sympathy = </p><p> </p><p>With DF? I thought She would freak out. He's got the whole biker thing going on - tattoo's, long hair, and my mother tends to be from an age where a cover tells about your book. </p><p> </p><p>In this case - she called him a prince among men! I nearly passed out. I coudln't figure out if she really liked him or was being overtly and hideously sarcastic. When she gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek? I KNEW she was serious. </p><p> </p><p>But to her credit - she's never picked sides in any of my relationships and I never told her how bad my marriage was. When i got out - she told me that she would SLEEP that night for the first time in TWELVE years. I felt awful. I never knew. That alone made me think long and hard about any if ever relationships I ventured into. I felt like an @$$ - my mom literally didn't sleep well. </p><p> </p><p>I hope your daughter finds herself very quickly - as kids we just think our parents love and patience are indespensible. They really aren't. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p><p> </p><p>I made my bed - I can always get out of my bed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 164233, member: 4964"] My Mother - in regards to any boy I dated except my now DF would always change the subject or say something like Well you married him - isn't he the greatest and "we always have your bed here if YOU want it." emphasis on YOU. And while I hated it - it was what I needed to hear. In other words - if I thought he was so great, convinced everyone he was great and married him and moved in with him - I wasnt' getting any of her sympathy = With DF? I thought She would freak out. He's got the whole biker thing going on - tattoo's, long hair, and my mother tends to be from an age where a cover tells about your book. In this case - she called him a prince among men! I nearly passed out. I coudln't figure out if she really liked him or was being overtly and hideously sarcastic. When she gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek? I KNEW she was serious. But to her credit - she's never picked sides in any of my relationships and I never told her how bad my marriage was. When i got out - she told me that she would SLEEP that night for the first time in TWELVE years. I felt awful. I never knew. That alone made me think long and hard about any if ever relationships I ventured into. I felt like an @$$ - my mom literally didn't sleep well. I hope your daughter finds herself very quickly - as kids we just think our parents love and patience are indespensible. They really aren't. Hugs Star I made my bed - I can always get out of my bed. [/QUOTE]
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