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A plea to those lucky posters who have not walked in our shoes
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 609584" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>There was a new poster here. His posts have been removed now. It was not you, Suz.</p><p></p><p>I'd say most of us don't even know, by this age, what our grown kid's disorders are for sure. We just know they are abusive to us, unwilling to help themselves, and impossible to live with in any sort of peace. Some are dangerous. </p><p></p><p>Every country diagnoses and treats it's younger kids differently. For example, what is ADHD in XXX may be Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) in YYY. The treatments also tend to be different and t he go-to person as well. If somebody comes here and says, "Hi, I'm from the uk" I tend to tell them to go to the go-to person in their country rather than give the normal person one who contact in the US because the healthcare systems are different.</p><p></p><p>In the big picture, on this board, our adult kids just tend to be intolerable and unwilling to change or to even think they have done anything wrong. I am not in a good place right now, although I am handling it far better than I used to, and was very sensitive when that poster put up his posts. But it was dealt with.</p><p></p><p>I'd rather not get advice from somebody who has never had an adult child who has caused mass chaos, but it is my decision whether or not to read the post fully or not so I agree after this thread that everyone should be welcome. There is actually an "ignore" feature here (sigh). I hope to never have to use it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 609584, member: 1550"] There was a new poster here. His posts have been removed now. It was not you, Suz. I'd say most of us don't even know, by this age, what our grown kid's disorders are for sure. We just know they are abusive to us, unwilling to help themselves, and impossible to live with in any sort of peace. Some are dangerous. Every country diagnoses and treats it's younger kids differently. For example, what is ADHD in XXX may be Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) in YYY. The treatments also tend to be different and t he go-to person as well. If somebody comes here and says, "Hi, I'm from the uk" I tend to tell them to go to the go-to person in their country rather than give the normal person one who contact in the US because the healthcare systems are different. In the big picture, on this board, our adult kids just tend to be intolerable and unwilling to change or to even think they have done anything wrong. I am not in a good place right now, although I am handling it far better than I used to, and was very sensitive when that poster put up his posts. But it was dealt with. I'd rather not get advice from somebody who has never had an adult child who has caused mass chaos, but it is my decision whether or not to read the post fully or not so I agree after this thread that everyone should be welcome. There is actually an "ignore" feature here (sigh). I hope to never have to use it. [/QUOTE]
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