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A step back for me....
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 437681" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>You have nothing to feel guilty about, hon. These are her choices.... as painful as that is to watch. You can't make them for her. Right now, you're worrying more about her situation than she is.. so often that's the case with our difficult children. We think of all the things they *should* be doing to fix their situation, we make the suggestions, and they shoot them all down... and then we are the ones crying, and they're just going on with their crazy lives of not knowing what the next day will bring. It's just not worth the energy we spend on it, honestly. Giving her groceries was the right thing to do... I did that for Oldest from time to time and she was truly grateful, as well. It's a small thing you can do without enabling, I think. </p><p></p><p>You deserve a vacation.. go enjoy yourself, distract yourself, and have a wonderful time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 437681, member: 1157"] You have nothing to feel guilty about, hon. These are her choices.... as painful as that is to watch. You can't make them for her. Right now, you're worrying more about her situation than she is.. so often that's the case with our difficult children. We think of all the things they *should* be doing to fix their situation, we make the suggestions, and they shoot them all down... and then we are the ones crying, and they're just going on with their crazy lives of not knowing what the next day will bring. It's just not worth the energy we spend on it, honestly. Giving her groceries was the right thing to do... I did that for Oldest from time to time and she was truly grateful, as well. It's a small thing you can do without enabling, I think. You deserve a vacation.. go enjoy yourself, distract yourself, and have a wonderful time. [/QUOTE]
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