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Absent father's girlfriend posted photo of difficult child on the web - "My family".
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 264092" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Wee difficult child is 7 now. Sorry (I'll fix that). </p><p> </p><p>Wee difficult child doesn't remember his bio dad. But we are still close to bio-dad's family, so, over time, he has learned that this other guy that shows up at grandma's every now and again is "the dad at grandma's house". It has only been in the last year and a half that he will recognize bio dad if he's out of context (if we see him in town or somewhere other than at grandma's). He has called husband dad for a couple of years now, started on his own accord, and everyone agreed it was ok, so no one corrects him.</p><p> </p><p>Bio Dad does not see him. He'll occassionally see difficult child if difficult child's at grandma's when dad stops by to see grandma (usually to get something from her), but never makes a point to see difficult child on purpose. Not since Mother's Day 03 - last time he made a point to see the kid. But dad has a new girlfriend and new girlfriend is obsessed with dad's family. She has a whole fantasy thing going on...she bothers difficult child 1 and his wife all the time, says she's going out when the baby is born tho they've told her they don't want them there, etc. She makes a point to go to grandmas to see difficult child 2 after school twice a week (I didn't realize this), and thru her, difficult child is starting to ask questions about his "old dad". Before, my husband was dad and difficult child was secure in that, and the whole family thought that was best, the ex-in-law's included. </p><p> </p><p>ExMIL says this woman has more pictures of husband's family than her house, her other 2 son's house, and my house combined (I still keep photos of all the family).</p><p> </p><p>Bio dad has never even given gifts for birthday or holiday, and girlfriend has bought tons o carp since she's been in the picture....thus difficult child is equating old dad to cool stuff and good times. Not good.</p><p> </p><p>Make more sense? I hang out with my ex-in-laws. They like me better than the current in-law's. And I like them. LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 264092, member: 1848"] Wee difficult child is 7 now. Sorry (I'll fix that). Wee difficult child doesn't remember his bio dad. But we are still close to bio-dad's family, so, over time, he has learned that this other guy that shows up at grandma's every now and again is "the dad at grandma's house". It has only been in the last year and a half that he will recognize bio dad if he's out of context (if we see him in town or somewhere other than at grandma's). He has called husband dad for a couple of years now, started on his own accord, and everyone agreed it was ok, so no one corrects him. Bio Dad does not see him. He'll occassionally see difficult child if difficult child's at grandma's when dad stops by to see grandma (usually to get something from her), but never makes a point to see difficult child on purpose. Not since Mother's Day 03 - last time he made a point to see the kid. But dad has a new girlfriend and new girlfriend is obsessed with dad's family. She has a whole fantasy thing going on...she bothers difficult child 1 and his wife all the time, says she's going out when the baby is born tho they've told her they don't want them there, etc. She makes a point to go to grandmas to see difficult child 2 after school twice a week (I didn't realize this), and thru her, difficult child is starting to ask questions about his "old dad". Before, my husband was dad and difficult child was secure in that, and the whole family thought that was best, the ex-in-law's included. ExMIL says this woman has more pictures of husband's family than her house, her other 2 son's house, and my house combined (I still keep photos of all the family). Bio dad has never even given gifts for birthday or holiday, and girlfriend has bought tons o carp since she's been in the picture....thus difficult child is equating old dad to cool stuff and good times. Not good. Make more sense? I hang out with my ex-in-laws. They like me better than the current in-law's. And I like them. LOL [/QUOTE]
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