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Absent father's girlfriend posted photo of difficult child on the web - "My family".
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 264103" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I'm not sure why this girlfriend is doing what she's doing - she should be concentrating on HER ADHD son and HER boyfriend (AKA your x) </p><p> </p><p>I'm going to have to think a while on this - because I think if you go too much one way or the other it's (in the end) going to make it worse for your difficult child. I had thought maybe you could meet this woman at the house the days she's showing up at your xmil - hide your car or get dropped off. Then when she comes in - have it prearranged that your xmil take your son outside and tell her to sit down, shut up and listen carefully. </p><p> </p><p>Tell her her advances are NOT welcome. Tell her that things are fine the way they are and that if she persists in bothering your family she CAN be served with papers for being a stalker. I know this because I did it. </p><p> </p><p>I was thinking in the back of my head that once your x finds out this is touching a nerve in you he may decide to climb on the band wagon with girlfriend JUST to cause trouble - but I doubt it. I think a mere mention of increased or substantial child support could stop him cold. </p><p> </p><p>I know the ENTIRE issue here is not to rock the boat that just steadied with your son. I'm sorry that girlfriend can't see this, but I'm amazed at the support one broom is giving you. </p><p> </p><p>Best of luck - maybe this woman needs to stay busy with someone elses kids that have problems and win a name for herself - someoen should tell her that they need volunteers at the orphanage and her services would be WELCOME ther to "save" as many children as she could. </p><p> </p><p>See where I'm going with that?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 264103, member: 4964"] I'm not sure why this girlfriend is doing what she's doing - she should be concentrating on HER ADHD son and HER boyfriend (AKA your x) I'm going to have to think a while on this - because I think if you go too much one way or the other it's (in the end) going to make it worse for your difficult child. I had thought maybe you could meet this woman at the house the days she's showing up at your xmil - hide your car or get dropped off. Then when she comes in - have it prearranged that your xmil take your son outside and tell her to sit down, shut up and listen carefully. Tell her her advances are NOT welcome. Tell her that things are fine the way they are and that if she persists in bothering your family she CAN be served with papers for being a stalker. I know this because I did it. I was thinking in the back of my head that once your x finds out this is touching a nerve in you he may decide to climb on the band wagon with girlfriend JUST to cause trouble - but I doubt it. I think a mere mention of increased or substantial child support could stop him cold. I know the ENTIRE issue here is not to rock the boat that just steadied with your son. I'm sorry that girlfriend can't see this, but I'm amazed at the support one broom is giving you. Best of luck - maybe this woman needs to stay busy with someone elses kids that have problems and win a name for herself - someoen should tell her that they need volunteers at the orphanage and her services would be WELCOME ther to "save" as many children as she could. See where I'm going with that? [/QUOTE]
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