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<blockquote data-quote="joders" data-source="post: 603611" data-attributes="member: 16663"><p>I posted earlier about all the behavioral problems with my stepson, mostly due to the emotional trauma he went through with his mother. We see many therapists psychiatrist, play therapist, family counsellor, psychologist, ALL of them have different opinions. I was hoping somebody may have been through the same situation and could advise how their child may have responded with all the issues, ecspecially right before school, I was not looking for a definite answer, just an opinion because all of our professionals have had different opinions and have told us it's ultimately up to us, and I'm sorry but they don't make books for this ****.</p><p></p><p>and I find your comment about my husband not getting sole custody until it was a "crisis" pretty offensive, unless you have been through a divorce as a male in Alberta you won't understand, it is VERY rare for the man to get custody, and we had to fight and fight, and call social services and pay ALOT of money to the lawyer to prove she was unfit, and even then (even after the 3 year old had broken her arm and given us a completely different story than her mother and the lawyer gave us) it took her stopping mortgage payments and letting the house go into foreclosure until the court would finally make the decision. So please don't make my husband out to be a bad dad, I'm very touchy about that because of how slanted the legal system is towards the female, my husband ALWAYS paid child support, in fact he overpaid to the point where she owed him money that he walked away from, and he ALWAYS took his time with the kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="joders, post: 603611, member: 16663"] I posted earlier about all the behavioral problems with my stepson, mostly due to the emotional trauma he went through with his mother. We see many therapists psychiatrist, play therapist, family counsellor, psychologist, ALL of them have different opinions. I was hoping somebody may have been through the same situation and could advise how their child may have responded with all the issues, ecspecially right before school, I was not looking for a definite answer, just an opinion because all of our professionals have had different opinions and have told us it's ultimately up to us, and I'm sorry but they don't make books for this ****. and I find your comment about my husband not getting sole custody until it was a "crisis" pretty offensive, unless you have been through a divorce as a male in Alberta you won't understand, it is VERY rare for the man to get custody, and we had to fight and fight, and call social services and pay ALOT of money to the lawyer to prove she was unfit, and even then (even after the 3 year old had broken her arm and given us a completely different story than her mother and the lawyer gave us) it took her stopping mortgage payments and letting the house go into foreclosure until the court would finally make the decision. So please don't make my husband out to be a bad dad, I'm very touchy about that because of how slanted the legal system is towards the female, my husband ALWAYS paid child support, in fact he overpaid to the point where she owed him money that he walked away from, and he ALWAYS took his time with the kids. [/QUOTE]
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