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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 623555" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>No it is not normal for a 34 year old to live off his mum and to claim he can't get a break when confronted with the fact that he can't do this forever.</p><p></p><p>It is totally reasonable to give him a deadline to move out. In the meantime you may have to figure out what to do to legally evict him if he doesn't move out. If you are worried he will act out or trash the place, you may need eviction and police. </p><p></p><p>You have the right thought in your head now...you deserve to be happy, to live with some one you love as two adults and not two roommates, and your 34 year old deserves he same...under his own steam. Hold that thought...THIS IS THE NATURAL WAY OF THINGS...and move forward one step at a time till you get there. </p><p></p><p>Keep posting. We will help.</p><p></p><p>Welcome</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 623555, member: 17269"] No it is not normal for a 34 year old to live off his mum and to claim he can't get a break when confronted with the fact that he can't do this forever. It is totally reasonable to give him a deadline to move out. In the meantime you may have to figure out what to do to legally evict him if he doesn't move out. If you are worried he will act out or trash the place, you may need eviction and police. You have the right thought in your head now...you deserve to be happy, to live with some one you love as two adults and not two roommates, and your 34 year old deserves he same...under his own steam. Hold that thought...THIS IS THE NATURAL WAY OF THINGS...and move forward one step at a time till you get there. Keep posting. We will help. Welcome Echo [/QUOTE]
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