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<blockquote data-quote="jeanne in CA" data-source="post: 628343" data-attributes="member: 18036"><p>Hi TE, I think my husband and I are prepared for the worst in terms of what she will say and do, but in reality, I am not sure how one really prepares for that. I guess just by knowing what will probably happen. </p><p> </p><p>The stress of the ongoing and very slow investigation is almost unbearable. We are blessed with a detective who is smart, hard-working, and easy to talk to. I am still answering questions and sending in additional information several times a week. That will not end soon. I am still waiting for horrible things to happen because I know they will. When she is finally arrested, it will be horrible for everyone. On the other hand, it will be good that our problems will then rightfully become her problems. I can't help but wonder if in the final analysis, will she be revealed as sadistic or simply opportunistic? That is horrible either way. </p><p>Your son's reactions and threats must have been so unbearably painful for you, but it sounds like you absolutely did what you had to do in order to get his antics to stop. I will keep that in mind if I have to call 911 myself. I keep saying this is love at its toughest. The easiest way not to cave is not so see them and that is what I am determined to achieve. I am so glad your fear and panic have lessened somewhat. </p><p> </p><p>Even in the face of undeniable proof of what all our daughter has done, I still find it nearly impossible to wrap my head around the entire thing. I have accepted the fact that I will always have more questions than answers. Nevertheless, I don’t spend a lot of time obsessing over the fact that when she could have become anything she wanted, she chose this. Rather, I take comfort in the fact that her story is not over. As long as she is alive, she may not be lost. Only time will tell, and I have no choice but to wait. </p><p> </p><p>Thank you so much for your message and words of encouragement. May you have peace in your life as well. </p><p> </p><p>Jeanne</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jeanne in CA, post: 628343, member: 18036"] Hi TE, I think my husband and I are prepared for the worst in terms of what she will say and do, but in reality, I am not sure how one really prepares for that. I guess just by knowing what will probably happen. The stress of the ongoing and very slow investigation is almost unbearable. We are blessed with a detective who is smart, hard-working, and easy to talk to. I am still answering questions and sending in additional information several times a week. That will not end soon. I am still waiting for horrible things to happen because I know they will. When she is finally arrested, it will be horrible for everyone. On the other hand, it will be good that our problems will then rightfully become her problems. I can't help but wonder if in the final analysis, will she be revealed as sadistic or simply opportunistic? That is horrible either way. Your son's reactions and threats must have been so unbearably painful for you, but it sounds like you absolutely did what you had to do in order to get his antics to stop. I will keep that in mind if I have to call 911 myself. I keep saying this is love at its toughest. The easiest way not to cave is not so see them and that is what I am determined to achieve. I am so glad your fear and panic have lessened somewhat. Even in the face of undeniable proof of what all our daughter has done, I still find it nearly impossible to wrap my head around the entire thing. I have accepted the fact that I will always have more questions than answers. Nevertheless, I don’t spend a lot of time obsessing over the fact that when she could have become anything she wanted, she chose this. Rather, I take comfort in the fact that her story is not over. As long as she is alive, she may not be lost. Only time will tell, and I have no choice but to wait. Thank you so much for your message and words of encouragement. May you have peace in your life as well. Jeanne [/QUOTE]
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