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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 592817" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. You may want to start a seperate thread. You picked up an old one so many people probably won't read it. You'll get more responses if you start fresh.</p><p></p><p>We'd have to know a lot more about your son to make helpful comments, like if he was ever sexually abused? Is he adopted from foster care where sexual abuse is almost the rule? Has he had any other issues? Who lives with you besides your sons? Anyone? If you are divorced, do you feel that his father acts safely when your son's visit him? Any shady people in dad's life who may have sexually abused him. Sadly, kids usually act out when they have been acted out on. It is not usually because of the internet or movies...it is because somebody did it to them. Often we don't know it happened. Sometimes they don't even remember, but it's in their sub-conscious. We kind of need the back story leading up to this. </p><p></p><p>You can not trust a child's promise...it is not worth it to get lax due to that. He really needs to see a specialist in youthful sexual issues. Can you take him to somebody privately rather than waiting for CPS? You actually should take your younger son too since he was the recipient of the abuse and it may have happened more than once. It is the norm for kids to claim it's the first time, but you don't really know that. Are you sure you can keep your youngest safe from him at all times? That means not letting them play outdoors together unless you are there. It's hard. I did live through something like this and it was horrible.</p><p></p><p>I hope you start your own thread. You'll get many more opinions <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Welcome to the board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 592817, member: 1550"] Hi there. You may want to start a seperate thread. You picked up an old one so many people probably won't read it. You'll get more responses if you start fresh. We'd have to know a lot more about your son to make helpful comments, like if he was ever sexually abused? Is he adopted from foster care where sexual abuse is almost the rule? Has he had any other issues? Who lives with you besides your sons? Anyone? If you are divorced, do you feel that his father acts safely when your son's visit him? Any shady people in dad's life who may have sexually abused him. Sadly, kids usually act out when they have been acted out on. It is not usually because of the internet or movies...it is because somebody did it to them. Often we don't know it happened. Sometimes they don't even remember, but it's in their sub-conscious. We kind of need the back story leading up to this. You can not trust a child's promise...it is not worth it to get lax due to that. He really needs to see a specialist in youthful sexual issues. Can you take him to somebody privately rather than waiting for CPS? You actually should take your younger son too since he was the recipient of the abuse and it may have happened more than once. It is the norm for kids to claim it's the first time, but you don't really know that. Are you sure you can keep your youngest safe from him at all times? That means not letting them play outdoors together unless you are there. It's hard. I did live through something like this and it was horrible. I hope you start your own thread. You'll get many more opinions :) Welcome to the board. [/QUOTE]
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