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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 593128" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>I was referring to the 2013 poster. The original poster in my opinion is a different story. </p><p></p><p>What you said at first is right mwm, need more info to be helpful. </p><p></p><p>I think it's a bad situation that they waited a year to get therapy for this. </p><p>But without knowing what happened exactly its hard to say if its a knee jerk reaction. My 8 year old is convinced that my 3 year old boy is a pervert because he touches his penis and will occasionally show it. And his dad seems to agree when I'm pretty sure that's a normal developmental behavior, you tell him to put it away don't show it to people and he can only touch it in the bathroom. Tk thinks he's a pervert but runs around the house in a towel if she can get away with it. </p><p>I've seen my</p><p>Kids point and poke at each other when they were younger. I think it's situational and a case by case basis how inappropriate it is, what actions are called for. But I've never been through the full hell of that situation. As a victim of sibling touch my step was 13 and I was 6. He used his hands, it happened more than once. It was inappropriate, something should of even done after I told my step mom and nothing was and luckily it never progressed and they were divorced the same year it happened. He clearly knew he was doing something wrong. It hurt that he wasn't confronted about his behavior but I didn't expect him to be thrown out.</p><p></p><p>Californiablonde's situation is different then mine and in my eyes more severe. </p><p></p><p>I think it's situational. You have to know the facts. I wouldn't want someone who doesn't know exactly what happened to turn my kid over to foster care. When they haven't been concerned for almost 2 years? All I'm saying is the op is the only one who can make the determination what is really going on what happened since the original incident her older child's behavior, her younger child's behavior. I'm sure she's lost many a night of sleep trying to find out of its continued or not, and what the answer to the problem is. </p><p></p><p>In any case you have my full support and I would not say any action that you've taken is a hysterical knee jerk one. You are your child's only advocate both the younger and the older.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 593128, member: 16184"] I was referring to the 2013 poster. The original poster in my opinion is a different story. What you said at first is right mwm, need more info to be helpful. I think it's a bad situation that they waited a year to get therapy for this. But without knowing what happened exactly its hard to say if its a knee jerk reaction. My 8 year old is convinced that my 3 year old boy is a pervert because he touches his penis and will occasionally show it. And his dad seems to agree when I'm pretty sure that's a normal developmental behavior, you tell him to put it away don't show it to people and he can only touch it in the bathroom. Tk thinks he's a pervert but runs around the house in a towel if she can get away with it. I've seen my Kids point and poke at each other when they were younger. I think it's situational and a case by case basis how inappropriate it is, what actions are called for. But I've never been through the full hell of that situation. As a victim of sibling touch my step was 13 and I was 6. He used his hands, it happened more than once. It was inappropriate, something should of even done after I told my step mom and nothing was and luckily it never progressed and they were divorced the same year it happened. He clearly knew he was doing something wrong. It hurt that he wasn't confronted about his behavior but I didn't expect him to be thrown out. Californiablonde's situation is different then mine and in my eyes more severe. I think it's situational. You have to know the facts. I wouldn't want someone who doesn't know exactly what happened to turn my kid over to foster care. When they haven't been concerned for almost 2 years? All I'm saying is the op is the only one who can make the determination what is really going on what happened since the original incident her older child's behavior, her younger child's behavior. I'm sure she's lost many a night of sleep trying to find out of its continued or not, and what the answer to the problem is. In any case you have my full support and I would not say any action that you've taken is a hysterical knee jerk one. You are your child's only advocate both the younger and the older. [/QUOTE]
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