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<blockquote data-quote="2far4me" data-source="post: 609389" data-attributes="member: 17042"><p>I am not in the position to offer advice at all since I'm dealing with similar issues from older children. I know that I am in a financial ruin due to my continued monetary contributions to get one or the other out of trouble. I am also divorced, something I cannot blame my children for but my situation with them certainly didn't help my situation with my now ex-husband. I often feel emotionally bankrupt and have all but given up on sleep. Today is my birthday and I won't hear from any of them, which cuts me deeply. I am so detached right now that nothing matters much - just an automatic pilot version of living. </p><p></p><p>I have an awesome counselor who has been working with me on healthy ways to establish boundaries and to talk to those I gave birth to. I would recommend that you find a solid counselor to help you through what could be a long, rocky road. I don't know if it is comforting or not, but I've read so many posts about situations similar to mine. I take some comfort in that. Wishing you well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2far4me, post: 609389, member: 17042"] I am not in the position to offer advice at all since I'm dealing with similar issues from older children. I know that I am in a financial ruin due to my continued monetary contributions to get one or the other out of trouble. I am also divorced, something I cannot blame my children for but my situation with them certainly didn't help my situation with my now ex-husband. I often feel emotionally bankrupt and have all but given up on sleep. Today is my birthday and I won't hear from any of them, which cuts me deeply. I am so detached right now that nothing matters much - just an automatic pilot version of living. I have an awesome counselor who has been working with me on healthy ways to establish boundaries and to talk to those I gave birth to. I would recommend that you find a solid counselor to help you through what could be a long, rocky road. I don't know if it is comforting or not, but I've read so many posts about situations similar to mine. I take some comfort in that. Wishing you well. [/QUOTE]
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