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<blockquote data-quote="rush" data-source="post: 612981" data-attributes="member: 16988"><p>Something has got to change quickly here. I can't stand the arguing with her everyday. When she went to a friends house a month ago for a week, we pitched her mattress and foundation because it stunk and was ruined from all the food and stuff she eats in her room. When she came back, she slept on sleeping bags on the floor. I found a used mattress and boxsprings for her for Christmas and gave it to her yesterday. She did say thank you. She had to clean her room to set it up, so all the clothes that were in her room are now in the hall. I washed my sleeping bags, but am leaving washing her clothes to her. She just got out of bed a few minutes ago and asked, "What am I supposed to eat for breakfast." I told her toast or something. (I quit buying groceries for the fridge like eggs milk lunchmeat etc. because she eats it all, even the canned veggies in the cabinet she eats. I hide a few things in my room for my husband and I, and keep milk and things in a locked small fridge in the garage for he and I) She started yelling about how I hide the groceries, cussing and all. I told her, you got paid last Thursday, go buy yourself something to eat. She said, " I am not going to buy myself food all the time and go broke!" Some nerve! I told her whats the difference, you eat up all the food <strong>I </strong>buy and we don't get any, so how is that fair? I am not obligated to feed you! I told her you need to move out, and it is always the same thing from her. She says, "you didn't make my older sister move out when she was 19, thats not fair!" I told her this is not about your older sister, this is about you! Your older sister , who is 23, has been working since she was 15, has been at the same job for 5 years, and she moved in and out 3 times between ages 17 to 22. She is out on her own, and making her own way. Besides that, your older sister never did the things you do here. she never ate up all the groceries, left atrocious messes, and disrespected us the way you do. You two are two different people so stop bringing her into this and realize this is about you! </p><p>I dont know how much more I can stand! She has got to go, the sooner the better. She will never grow up and appreciate how good she has had it here untill she is on her own paying her own way. Guess I should go ahead and try to find her a cheap place to stay huh? I was waiting to see if she gets to go to work this week. Thanks for listening and any advice you may offer.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rush, post: 612981, member: 16988"] Something has got to change quickly here. I can't stand the arguing with her everyday. When she went to a friends house a month ago for a week, we pitched her mattress and foundation because it stunk and was ruined from all the food and stuff she eats in her room. When she came back, she slept on sleeping bags on the floor. I found a used mattress and boxsprings for her for Christmas and gave it to her yesterday. She did say thank you. She had to clean her room to set it up, so all the clothes that were in her room are now in the hall. I washed my sleeping bags, but am leaving washing her clothes to her. She just got out of bed a few minutes ago and asked, "What am I supposed to eat for breakfast." I told her toast or something. (I quit buying groceries for the fridge like eggs milk lunchmeat etc. because she eats it all, even the canned veggies in the cabinet she eats. I hide a few things in my room for my husband and I, and keep milk and things in a locked small fridge in the garage for he and I) She started yelling about how I hide the groceries, cussing and all. I told her, you got paid last Thursday, go buy yourself something to eat. She said, " I am not going to buy myself food all the time and go broke!" Some nerve! I told her whats the difference, you eat up all the food [B]I [/B]buy and we don't get any, so how is that fair? I am not obligated to feed you! I told her you need to move out, and it is always the same thing from her. She says, "you didn't make my older sister move out when she was 19, thats not fair!" I told her this is not about your older sister, this is about you! Your older sister , who is 23, has been working since she was 15, has been at the same job for 5 years, and she moved in and out 3 times between ages 17 to 22. She is out on her own, and making her own way. Besides that, your older sister never did the things you do here. she never ate up all the groceries, left atrocious messes, and disrespected us the way you do. You two are two different people so stop bringing her into this and realize this is about you! I dont know how much more I can stand! She has got to go, the sooner the better. She will never grow up and appreciate how good she has had it here untill she is on her own paying her own way. Guess I should go ahead and try to find her a cheap place to stay huh? I was waiting to see if she gets to go to work this week. Thanks for listening and any advice you may offer. [/QUOTE]
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