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Advice re: S/O's sister
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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 442980" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>I would keep my distance, and don't budge an inch on the line you have drawn in the sand for her. If you want no contact, then don't open the door when she stops by unannounced and don't take her phone calls. No law says you have to have ANY relationship with her, period. And by the way, I'd be making sure all doors and windows are locked at ALL times. I second the idea of getting a restraining order against her. AND I would just smile and nod whenever mother in law says anything about the subject. What goes on between you, SO and sister in law is none of her business anyway.</p><p></p><p>I think you made your position VERY clear, and her recovery is for HER to work through, not you or SO. Three weeks on methadone does not a recovered addict make. It takes YEARS and it takes a lot of hard work and commitment to the program, not to mention mental health counseling to address whatever the issues were/are that led to the addiction in the first place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 442980, member: 3444"] I would keep my distance, and don't budge an inch on the line you have drawn in the sand for her. If you want no contact, then don't open the door when she stops by unannounced and don't take her phone calls. No law says you have to have ANY relationship with her, period. And by the way, I'd be making sure all doors and windows are locked at ALL times. I second the idea of getting a restraining order against her. AND I would just smile and nod whenever mother in law says anything about the subject. What goes on between you, SO and sister in law is none of her business anyway. I think you made your position VERY clear, and her recovery is for HER to work through, not you or SO. Three weeks on methadone does not a recovered addict make. It takes YEARS and it takes a lot of hard work and commitment to the program, not to mention mental health counseling to address whatever the issues were/are that led to the addiction in the first place. [/QUOTE]
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