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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 443435" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Thank you all for the input and understanding. I think a note on the door might be a good way to go but I think she may have already travelled home making this a moot point, for the moment anyhow. </p><p></p><p>In regards to court orders to keep her away etc I just wouldn't do that in this situation. her showing up once after all of this time to attempt to talk was not harassment, it simply annoyed and upset S/O and I but she wasn't out of line in a legal sense, just in the sense that she is absurd to think we'd be ready to "work things out" when she hasn't worked on herself at all. Even if she hasn't returned home yet (I do believe she has though) and did stop by this week again to try once more to talk, if via telephone or in person or writing she was told to not do it again PERIOD, I do believe she'd just stay away. She's a pain in our behinds in the sense that we don't want her around until she gets her act together, she hasn't been demanding or pushy etc. Simply unrealistic in her approach at the door out of the blue with some weird belief that we'd embrace her at this point. </p><p></p><p>I believe that if she has gone home as I suspect, my best approach might be a letter as suggested above, snail mailed to her at her own home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 443435, member: 4264"] Thank you all for the input and understanding. I think a note on the door might be a good way to go but I think she may have already travelled home making this a moot point, for the moment anyhow. In regards to court orders to keep her away etc I just wouldn't do that in this situation. her showing up once after all of this time to attempt to talk was not harassment, it simply annoyed and upset S/O and I but she wasn't out of line in a legal sense, just in the sense that she is absurd to think we'd be ready to "work things out" when she hasn't worked on herself at all. Even if she hasn't returned home yet (I do believe she has though) and did stop by this week again to try once more to talk, if via telephone or in person or writing she was told to not do it again PERIOD, I do believe she'd just stay away. She's a pain in our behinds in the sense that we don't want her around until she gets her act together, she hasn't been demanding or pushy etc. Simply unrealistic in her approach at the door out of the blue with some weird belief that we'd embrace her at this point. I believe that if she has gone home as I suspect, my best approach might be a letter as suggested above, snail mailed to her at her own home. [/QUOTE]
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