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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 443449" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sweetie, if she doesn't stop by please do NOT mail anything to her. Sending ANYTHING other than legal papers of a restraining order will be seen as opening up a relationship in her sick sick mind. I promise. I know what I am speaking of. I have come to believe that giving ANYTHING to my niece as a gift is seen that way by gfgbro, so I won't be doing that any more. Even though it hurts to not do anything for her. </p><p></p><p>If you send a letter saying what you told her when she was at your door, both she AND mother in law will see it as you being "open" to a relationship and "recognizing" her recovery - all 3 weeks that it hasn't been. But she will take this as being right that she is "in recovery" and things will just get worse.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry she is so sick. I can see why legal papers are not appropriate as one visit in many months simply isn't harassment. If she doesn't come by, just be glad and don't send her anything.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 443449, member: 1233"] Sweetie, if she doesn't stop by please do NOT mail anything to her. Sending ANYTHING other than legal papers of a restraining order will be seen as opening up a relationship in her sick sick mind. I promise. I know what I am speaking of. I have come to believe that giving ANYTHING to my niece as a gift is seen that way by gfgbro, so I won't be doing that any more. Even though it hurts to not do anything for her. If you send a letter saying what you told her when she was at your door, both she AND mother in law will see it as you being "open" to a relationship and "recognizing" her recovery - all 3 weeks that it hasn't been. But she will take this as being right that she is "in recovery" and things will just get worse. I am sorry she is so sick. I can see why legal papers are not appropriate as one visit in many months simply isn't harassment. If she doesn't come by, just be glad and don't send her anything. [/QUOTE]
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